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Old 06-21-2006, 06:00 PM   #16
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The thread in question was deleted by savageamusement.

Creating a thread solely to bash another member is against the rules. There was another thread made on Chit Chat that was pulled for the same reason. I'd hardly call a thread with the title "Brain Damaged - 100% First Class A$$" a non flame post. How would you feel if a thread like that was created about savageamusement or another well respected member? If you want to discuss this privately, feel free to contact me.

Everyone was a little guilty in the other threads. Brian Damage definitely should have handled things differently. I told him that.. but so could everybody else in that thread instead of continuing the fight. It could have been reported. The instinct is just to continue the fight until it gets broken up by the referee. Solomon started a thread and was basically ridiculed in 3 different threads. Brian stood up for him, as any good friend would do, and then all hell broke loose. The insults were flying left and right. I can't ask a moderator not to defend himself.

And just so everyone knows, the only moderators that can close/open, edit threads on the Trading Post are savageamusement, combsisthebest, and the admins. There are no "Super Moderators" here that have power across all boards.

This really needs to end once and for all, everybody just needs to move on to something else. Any further threads on the subject will just be deleted. I've never seen 2 groups of people on a message board act so differently. Can't everybody just get along? If you don't like somebody, just ignore them. Don't talk about them behind their backs and make sarcastic remarks. If you continually ridicule someone, you are looking for trouble.
How do you think I felt when Brian came up here and opened his toilet mouth to me when I never addressed him, had said nothing to him, calls me whatever names he wanted and then cries like a baby.?

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How do you think I felt when Brian came up here and opened his toilet mouth to me when I never addressed him, had said nothing to him, calls me whatever names he wanted and then cries like a baby.?

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Yes, it was her choice 100% completely. I hadn't even seen the posts before they were deleted. I don't question her when she moves or edits posts. I trust her judgment that she knows what to do to keep the peace here.

RedWhine, you were the ONLY person who used the report post function to report that thread. None of the other people who particpated in that thread chose to use it.

Harvey's thread "Moderating" was much the same as the one on Chit Chat, with some additional comments by other people thrown in for good measure.
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You just can't end it can you Harv? lol
Sure, apoligize like a man.
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When you apologize like a man to Solomon. Otherwise, forget it.
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You just can't end it can you Harv? lol

Guys just take it off board to TJ, don't address it here. Ultimately it is his board and I really do not want to see a shut down again.

Some people will continue pushing buttons do not give him the satisfaction.
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Gentlemen.. please let's not go through what we went through last night. Let's agree to disagree and stop with the flame wars.
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Obviously, this is a rhetorical question, because if the thread is gone, it's because it got deleted by a mod. But WTF? I'm wondering why a MODERATOR can repeatedly flame members & get by with it. And then when said moderator's actions are questioned in a mature manner (UNLIKE SAID MODERATOR'S FLAMES!), the thread is pulled? I've been ripped a new one more than once here & NEVER reported it or asked that it be pulled. If I feel I'm in the wrong, I have the gonads to say so & apologize. I post my replies, use the "ignore member" button, when warranted & move on. I would expect as much from a moderator.
I see NOTHING flaming about this (unlike BD's continued, elementary and certainly unoriginal reponses). Ok, maybe that last part was a bit over the top on my part. And I think it's a fair observation that is deserving of a fair answer.
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Awwww....isn't that sweet????
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The flames and insults were being thrown both ways. If you want to question a moderator's actions, you can do it privately with me.
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Geez, Brian, you've got to give me a bit more to go on than that. Is this supposed to be an insult? Hurt my feelings? Work with me here.
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TJ said cool it, but like Timex you keep ticking and ticking and ticking. Wish the battery would die already.
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You people just never stop.
I really think you are being unfair here--- it is not a question of us "NEVER STOPPING" we just do not understand

a few facts

1. MODERATORS on this or any board, are expected to act professional and mature and to rise above the pettiness and childishness that sometimes goes on, and they are held to a higher standard because they are in a position of authority

2. when u have a moderator who makes personal attacks and name calling and uses profanity, it comes off as real unprofessional and real immature, regardless of the situation

3. the whole situation yesterday was all good natured--- we rib one another a lot, i tease solomon about his "original commercials", lilhave teases loren about his "premium list", people tease lilhave about his age, and his old vaudevillian jokes, people tease me and joey1727 about being from the south, etc, etc, etc---- noone meant any harm by any of it, even if there was disagreement

4. when the moderator in question began posting about the situation his tone was confrontational and insulting and people took offense, his use of bad language and name calling was inappropriate and not right---- as someone in a position of authority it came off, to most members like an abuse of that authority and extremely negative

5. another moderator LOCKED one thread and posted that same statement, and this moderator simply posted negative and insulting comments on ANOTHER THREAD----- that thread was ALSO locked, and it continued on yet a third thread, even after it was publicly stated and posted that the comments were not becoming to a moderator

6. all those negative comments are still able to be viewed and read, YET when a NON MODERATOR member started a new thread about how inappropriate the moderators statements were, THAT THREAD WAS REMOVED????

it seems like a double standard when a moderator can post name calling and insults and use bad language (even if its censored out, we all know the intent) BUT yet if a member questions why a moderator does that, and points out how inappropriate it is, THEN THAT IS NOT ALLOWED!?!?!?

i know moderators cannot be bashed and i understand the rules, HOWEVER if a moderator is allowed to insult and degrade a member publicly, and that member cannot respond---- is that fair? and are people wrong for pointing it out????
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sir u have ALWAYS seemed like a decent guy to me, but i just dont understand it--- u sign your posts with a biblical quote but last night u mixed the biblical quote in with cuss word and insults? that is NOT very Christian by anyones standard and

do u not understand that moderators are supposed to be respected--- BUT they are also supposed to earn that respect by acting in a mature, professional and intelligent way? and by "moderating" problems, NOT adding to the problems and adding to the mudslinging?

last night 1 thread was locked b/c of inappropriate behavior and language (now u were NOT the only one to cross the line, BUT you were the only MODERATOR to do so)
yet even then the arguements moved on to another thread, and when that was locked, it moved to yet another thread

i just dont get it, i mean, do u not see how wrong and inappropriate that was? and how bad it came off to the regular members who read the boards and who look to moderators for guidance and help with problems? and are honestly SHOCKED to see a moderator PUBLICLY CUSSING out another member over a silly post????
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