Originally Posted by macbeth06
I have those dateing sites and I get no hits at all in just getting very sad lonely and depressed
Go out to where people are. No one's going to come and get you. Join meetup groups and be with people. Look presentable. Be neat and clean. If you're fat, lose weight. Make some friends and put girlfriends on the back burner. You're heading nowhere doing what you're doing. If you can afford it, see a shrink. But see one that will tell you the truth, which means things you don't want to hear. Stop posting here looking for sympathy. Do something about it.