i need advise about bf problems???

[~*Belle N'Shawn forever~*]

Hi i was wondering if you guys on the board can help me out i am having boyfriend problems ....the other day he was treating me bad when i talked to him online , and he didnt wanna meet for valentines day he decided to fight instead, and i got mad and i left him, then last night he asked me back out but i am not sure what i wanna do !!!! Can you guys help me out?? i would really appreicate it! but my heart tells me to go back to him b/c i love him and the other part says no b/c im tired of getting hurt alot.

[Brian Damage]

I wouldn't make it so easy for him. Let him sweat it out. Let him work to get you back. Nobody should be treated like dirt. To be honest, I would say screw it and look for someone else. He should've been with you for Valentine's day if he really loved you. I say move on, but obviously I can't tell you what to do.

[EricIdlefan]

If he doesn't, I mean doesn't want to get back together with you, tell him he can take his attitude problem and shove it up his you know what and flip your middle finger at him!!

[*Marilyn Monroe*]

I'd say screw it...you don't need him. Just go look for someone else. Or not. You don't need a guy to be happy.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

Ive never been in this situation, but I know how hard it must be to walk away from someone you love. I agree with Brian.. make him work to get you back. If he doesnt try hard enough, he wasnt worth it.

[phoebe7165]

It is hard to walk away from someone you love, even if he is treating you bad. I know, I had to do it. It took me forever to break up with my boyfriend, and I finally did.

Belle, it's hard listening to your head, but you know you're mainly getting hurt. As long as he knows he has you, he'll continue to treat you the way he had.

You don't know how he's going to be the next time you talk to him. Do you really want that kind of relationship?

[Mijada]

It seems to me that he just wants to be with you when it is convenient for him, otherwise he wouldn't act like such a jerk. Don't give in to him. Do what Brian Damage says and make him sweat it out. If you make it easy for him he will just go on treating you badly.

[~*Belle N'Shawn forever~*]

Originally posted by Mijada
It seems to me that he just wants to be with you when it is convenient for him, otherwise he wouldn't act like such a jerk. Don't give in to him. Do what Brian Damage says and make him sweat it out. If you make it easy for him he will just go on treating you badly.

Thank you so much for your advis's i think i might do that make him suffer and wait for my answer... im sick of being treated like crap .. I wanna stay single for alittle while i do love him...maybe if i take a break from online at nights when he is on and not come on and only come on in the day time when im at work i think i might do that and make him wonder what is going on.. I have one more thing! He save's the conversation's that him and I have and he sends it to his sister...what do you guys think about that??? i think thats kinda wrong...and plus i do not like to have any1 eles knowing about what we do in our relationship ad convos! idk im confusedddddddddddd lol help me:livid: :smash: :livid:

[Brian Damage]

Dump him! Sure it'll be hard, but he sounds like a little wuss. How could you trust a guy like that?

[I am Him]

I don't think Belle Black provided all the nessessary information. I believe there is more to this story than is being revealed.

[Ewan's My Man]

Ahh, my favorite quote..."Men aren't worth your tears, and the ones that are, will never make you cry"

or something along the lines of that...;)

I say dump him, however, I've never been in a relationship so I dunno how hard that would be.

[Rhiannon]

I need b/f advice too. How do you get a hot, smart guy that actually has a job and a car?

[Rhiannon]

didn't mean to double post....sorry

[I am Him]

Originally posted by Vera Wang
I need b/f advice too. How do you get a hot, smart guy that actually has a job and a car?

keep your body in shape
Wear nice clothes (no jeans!)
wear perfume
Smile
Don't get any tatoos
Be nice

[EricIdlefan]

If he dumps you, you aren't probably the first nor last woman he has dumped!! He is a cad if he does this to other women!!

[~LadyJess~]

Originally posted by Vera Wang
I need b/f advice too. How do you get a hot, smart guy that actually has a job and a car?

I've been asking that same question my whole life. ;)

[dandelion wine]

Originally posted by Brian Damage
I wouldn't make it so easy for him. Let him sweat it out. Let him work to get you back. Nobody should be treated like dirt. To be honest, I would say screw it and look for someone else. He should've been with you for Valentine's day if he really loved you. I say move on, but obviously I can't tell you what to do.

I agree with this 100%.

If you continue going to back to him, making it easy on him every time he does something like this... he will never stop. You want to be respected, then stand up for yourself and let the guy know that relationships are 50/50.

[dawsongirl]

Originally posted by Belle Black
He save's the conversation's that him and I have and he sends it to his sister...what do you guys think about that???

WTF? What an ass.

[dawsongirl]

Originally posted by Vera Wang
I need b/f advice too. How do you get a hot, smart guy that actually has a job and a car?

Create him in a lab?

[Microprosa]

You said he was mean to you the other night. Is he usually mean to you or was it just that one time? Maybe he was having an awful day or was mad at you. I think you should talk to him and see if your relationship can be saved. Relationships take work. They aren't perfect all the time.

[robyrob]

Originally posted by dawsongirl
WTF? What an ass. ditto - i wouldn't even talk to someone online if they did that to me more than once

[EricIdlefan]

If he does that to you either kick them in the groin and/or give them a fatlip!!

[~*Belle N'Shawn forever~*]

Originally posted by dawsongirl
WTF? What an ass.

I tell u he is a dum ass, i cant belieave he does that crap i mean sending convos to his sister is pretty bad means he dont trust me or whatever i dunno! ...whenever him and i fight or something he's always gotta go run to his sister then she ims me and starts her ****, and i told her to mind her damn bizz and it dont concern her!!!! ...I havnt heard from him in 2 days well i havnt really been online lately anyways!!! but NO emails or notta.... maybe he'll straighten up ...( I HOPE)

[~*Belle N'Shawn forever~*]

Originally posted by Microprosa
You said he was mean to you the other night. Is he usually mean to you or was it just that one time? Maybe he was having an awful day or was mad at you. I think you should talk to him and see if your relationship can be saved. Relationships take work. They aren't perfect all the time.

It only happend that one night when i pushed him away when he wanted it and i didnt..but he kept on doing it but he stoped cuz put my coat on and that and i drove him back to his house and i went home!.. but He has been a P*rick latley and he admitted to me the other day when he asked me back out.....i thought that was pretty funny when he did that..

[EricIdlefan]

Did you turn him down BTW since he treated you like dirt??