If you knew that your best friend was cheating on her husband would you tell him?

[I Dream of Jeannie]

If you knew that your best friend was cheating on her husband with a guy who is also your friend, would you tell her husband?

I'll rephrase that it's a bit confusing, okay if you had a friend and her and one of your guy friends are having an affair would you tell her husband? Because both your friends would be mad at you but her husband needs to know. What would you do?

[-*Leah*-]

:lol: Ohh my goodness. This is about Dee and Drake isn't it?:rotflmao:

[I Dream of Jeannie]

Originally posted by Leah_2oo6
:lol: Ohh my goodness. This is about Dee and Drake isn't it?:rotflmao:

No.

[-*Leah*-]

Originally posted by I Dream of Jeannie
No. :lol: :p SORRY!:lol:

[Crimson and Clover]

I dont know. Maybe Id try and talk to the girl and the guy she was cheating with. And if they didnt stop or tell the husband then Id tell.

[I Dream of Jeannie]

Originally posted by Leah_2oo6
:lol: :p SORRY!:lol:

I figured you'd think that though, :rotflmao:

[°Bubbly Blonde°]

I might ask what she likes more about the guy she's having an affair with, and if she's in love with him or if it's just sex. I dont know if I'd tell, if she's in love with the guy she's having an affair with, I might tell her husband so that he'll know...if it's just sex, I dont know, I dont think I would tell...more than likely though I wouldn't tell, since it's not my problem....

[Brian]

I'd mind my own business.

[DustBunny]

I don't know. Folks sure are crazy these days. What if he killed her, literally? I don't want to be involved in anything like that. She's made her bed, she needs to lay in it...alone...without ME lol:p I would make it known to her that I disagree with what she's doing though.

[MonarC]

I really don't like to get in the middle of stuff like that. Id stay out of it. It's her problem and he would probably find out eventually. I also probably wouldn't be her friend any more. Cause people like that aren't good people. If you have the urge to cheat then you should just end the relationship in my opinion.

peace:

[pandora_spocks]

Nah, I'd stay out of it and pretend like I didn't know what was going on.

[Czas na Zywiec]

I'd tell them both to meet me in Chicago and then I'd blindfold them and proceed them both to Springer's studio. :D

[I Dream of Jeannie]

Originally posted by Original Prankster
I'd tell them both to meet me in Chicago and then I'd blindfold them and proceed them both to Springer's studio. :D

Trust me, I've thought about it. :lol:

[MonarC]

I Dream of Jeannie
are you really in this situation?:eek:

[~Teddybear~]

My best friend probably wouldn't want me to tell, so i would just leave it alone..but I would never help her do something that she shouldn't do, that would be wrong....

[Moonlight Lady]

I'd stay out of it.

[Brian Damage]

Originally posted by Katie Tripper
I'd stay out of it.

Ditto

[TJL]

Originally posted by Brian
I'd mind my own business.

Ditto. It's between your friend and her husband.

[dawsongirl]

Originally posted by MonarC
I really don't like to get in the middle of stuff like that. Id stay out of it. It's her problem and he would probably find out eventually. I also probably wouldn't be her friend any more. Cause people like that aren't good people. If you have the urge to cheat then you should just end the relationship in my opinion.

peace:

I agree. If you're gonna cheat, just get divorced.

[Microprosa]

I'd tell the husband, he deserves to know.

[Ewan's My Man]

I'd stay out of it. I might tell her that I know, but I'd never go and tell her husband. It's not my right to tell him what's going on with his wife.

[Kay Scarpetta]

I'd mind my own business :-/ I hate being stuck in the middle...

[Titania]

I wouldn't tell him.


I'd probably tell her that it was pretty scummy of her to do that, but if she were really my best friend- no way I'd tell her husband.

[Liza]

My best friend is engaged to this really great guy, and I've known him for just as long as I've known her. I'd tell him - he deserves better than that.

[mcgwirefan]

It's not your place to tell anybody anything. Stay out of it.

[Pitooey]

I would mind my own business........

[Pixie_Dust]

Alright, maybe I'm the only one but....

I'd tell. I wouldn't waste a moment, and I would tell. It is your business because it concerns your friend's happiness. I'd tell him/her to stop it because they're only going to get hurt. And if they didn't, I'd tell his/her spouse.

My dad was in that situation, none of his friends told him my mother was cheating on him. He had to find out for himself and that was heartbreaking. He hasn't recovered from that yet and it's been 20 years.

Eloise

[Kristina]

I'd probably stay out of it.

[Liza]

Originally posted by Pixie_Dust
Alright, maybe I'm the only one but....

I'd tell. I wouldn't waste a moment, and I would tell. It is your business because it concerns your friend's happiness. I'd tell him/her to stop it because they're only going to get hurt. And if they didn't, I'd tell his/her spouse.

My dad was in that situation, none of his friends told him my mother was cheating on him. He had to find out for himself and that was heartbreaking. He hasn't recovered from that yet and it's been 20 years.

Eloise

You're not the only one. I'd tell too - provided that I knew the guy. If I really didn't know him that well it's possible that he wouldn't believe me, and then I would have lost them both.

[Pixie_Dust]

Originally posted by Liza
You're not the only one. I'd tell too - provided that I knew the guy. If I really didn't know him that well it's possible that he wouldn't believe me, and then I would have lost them both.

That's true too, but as the best friend of his wife, he should believe that you know something is going on.

Getting cheated on is awful, it breaks so many relationships, I don't know why people do it. If you want to cheat, you shouldn't have gotten into a relationship. I just got engaged, and before I said Yes, I told my fiance to consider that if he even thinks a little bit that he might cheat on me, he should just drop the proposal right then and there to spare any broken hearts.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

Damn straight Id tell. I dont care if its my business or not. Youre screwed either way. If you dont say anything and the husband finds out you knew.. he'll be pissed.. if you tell him your best friend will hate you. I dont get why people cheat and have no patient for people who do, so a little Springer action would be fun. They can blame and hate me all they want.. Im the innocent one.

[dandelion wine]

I'm not sure if I would tell the husband or not, but I would certainly have a long talk with my best friend about what she's doing. Let her know that it's wrong, and that she needs to tell her husband. He has every right to know what's happening, and the one person he should hear it from is his wife.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

If I didnt want to tell the husband front up, Id make him 'run into her' unknowingly so he can see for himself.

[Liza]

Originally posted by Pixie_Dust
That's true too, but as the best friend of his wife, he should believe that you know something is going on.

Getting cheated on is awful, it breaks so many relationships, I don't know why people do it. If you want to cheat, you shouldn't have gotten into a relationship. I just got engaged, and before I said Yes, I told my fiance to consider that if he even thinks a little bit that he might cheat on me, he should just drop the proposal right then and there to spare any broken hearts.

Yeah, as I said if it was my actual best friend - I'd definately tell cuz I know he'd believe me.

And, btw, congratulations on your engagement! :clap: :clap: