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So Sorry

01-09-2002, 11:39 PM

This is sara. I'm sorry for everything I did. I guess I just did it for attention. I don't expect everyone to forgive and forget. Actually I don't expect anyone to. I just wanted to say that I did it because I was under alot of stress and I wanted a new identity. I thought that if people thought I was dead and my friend was here they would be nice to me. I just can't fight well. I'm not made for it. I tried to make friends and no one talked to me, so I screwed up and lied. I lied when I said in a chat room that I like to make people mad at me. The real person that I am is just way too sensitive. I take everything personally and most of the time I cry when I fight. The only thing I'm used to is people laughing at me and hating me so this place is no different. If you think I am looking for sympathy, I'm not. I just want everyone to know what I'm like. I lie when no one cares. I betrayed my best friends lauren, kassie, kiera, and nicole by lying to them. I regret it every day. I regret everything I did. I am truly sorry. Please don't respond to this if you are going to yell at me. I'm upset right now.

So Sorry

01-10-2002, 12:00 AM

this is Ewan btw. Everyone go ahead and yell not that I was stopping you.

#1_Nancy_McKeon

01-10-2002, 12:00 AM

Point taken, that wasn't a nice thing to do. Taking things to personally I can understand somewhat...Although, me myself I brush most everything off especially if it accures online. Anyhow, I say change your name and get back with us.. I get the point that you're sorry...So you don't have to live with the 'So Sorry' name pick a name that you would enjoy being known by and pick up from there. Just please don't try anything like that again. You freaked a lot of people out. That's just so totally not fair.
Start over?

So Sorry

01-10-2002, 12:03 AM

if other people say it's ok I will... thanks.

sue z q

01-10-2002, 01:18 AM

Originally posted by #1_Nancy_McKeon
Point taken, that wasn't a nice thing to do...Anyhow, I say change your name and get back with us.. I get the point that you're sorry...Just please don't try anything like that again. You freaked a lot of people out. That's just so totally not fair.
Start over?

I agree 100% with ya, Miranda. I'm the ultimate advocate for forgiving and forgetting, but lessons do need to be learned. If the people who you mostly lied to can forgive, forget and accept ya back then I say welcome back, BUT I wouldn't exactly count on that, and I frankly wouldn't blame them. I understand ya wanting attention and being sensetive, but lying in the first place is wrong, and REPEATEDLY lying is also wrong...but I say it's up to those people you mentioned and who have really taken the brunt of your lying.

Nancy McKeon fan!

01-10-2002, 01:27 AM

Originally posted by So Sorry
This is sara. I'm sorry for everything I did. I guess I just did it for attention. I don't expect everyone to forgive and forget. Actually I don't expect anyone to. I just wanted to say that I did it because I was under alot of stress and I wanted a new identity. I thought that if people thought I was dead and my friend was here they would be nice to me. I just can't fight well. I'm not made for it. I tried to make friends and no one talked to me, so I screwed up and lied. I lied when I said in a chat room that I like to make people mad at me. The real person that I am is just way too sensitive. I take everything personally and most of the time I cry when I fight. The only thing I'm used to is people laughing at me and hating me so this place is no different. If you think I am looking for sympathy, I'm not. I just want everyone to know what I'm like. I lie when no one cares. I betrayed my best friends lauren, kassie, kiera, and nicole by lying to them. I regret it every day. I regret everything I did. I am truly sorry. Please don't respond to this if you are going to yell at me. I'm upset right now.
i dont know if you are trying to get sympathy or not, because i am not am mind reader but i will say is at least you can admit it when you lie and do some thing that is wrong, not manny people can or are willing to do that. i just had to say that.

IMakeBurgers

01-10-2002, 07:09 AM

This is the only thing I'm gonna say, in this topic..Maybe...ok, here it goes..2 words..HOW PITYFUL!!

InspectorDeLorenzo

01-10-2002, 02:16 PM

Originally posted by #1_Nancy_McKeon
Point taken, that wasn't a nice thing to do. Taking things to personally I can understand somewhat...Although, me myself I brush most everything off especially if it accures online. Anyhow, I say change your name and get back with us.. I get the point that you're sorry...So you don't have to live with the 'So Sorry' name pick a name that you would enjoy being known by and pick up from there. Just please don't try anything like that again. You freaked a lot of people out. That's just so totally not fair.
Start over?

I agree 100% with ya Mir. I say choose a new name, learn from your mistakes, and give it another shot. Some people may not forgive you, but if ya truely are sorry Maybe they will. I personally am always for the "Give people second chances" approach. I mean, who out of all of us has never made a giant mistake that they totally wish they hadn't done? It's called being human. lol.

- Candace "Shaking hands and Kissing Babies" De Lorenzo :wave:

AllIWantIsYourClutch

01-10-2002, 04:18 PM

You know what? I am SO sick of you! (Sara that is) You can come back here if you want (even though i personally dont want you to)but you better stay the hell away from me.

nancysbiggestfan

01-10-2002, 04:33 PM

Kay Scarpetta

01-10-2002, 06:24 PM

Originally posted by nancysbiggestfan
I agree with ya on this Miranda. Everyone deserves a chance to be forgiven.(Jinny-hehe)

Yes, I also agree with you Miranda. At least you had the guts to admit you did something really wrong. Well, I hope you don't do anything like this ever again because it freaked me out

Babes_Cat

01-10-2002, 06:25 PM

Originally posted by NancyRulz24
You know what? I am SO sick of you! (Sara that is) You can come back here if you want (even though i personally dont want you to)but you better stay the hell away from me.

:rolleyes:

Originally posted by So Sorry
Please don't respond to this if you are going to yell at me.

*sighs* Amy...... :rolleyes:

AllIWantIsYourClutch

01-10-2002, 06:48 PM

Whoops....didn't see that...lol...oh well...

Max Whittaker

01-10-2002, 07:12 PM

It'll take time for people to get to know you. If you decide to stay, please don't lie to us again. You made a mistake. We all understand that. But don't lie anymore. On these boards, no one needs to make up stories to fit in or become well-known and liked. Just be yourself and things should come into play(unless of course you are a compulsive lier by nature).

If you are willing to work to be honest, I will welcome you back with open arms. But there is no place on this site for split-personalities.

01-10-2002, 07:26 PM

Sarah, first I must say this to you. I'm really disappointed that you lied about your sister being in a car accident (yes, I was informed that it was a lie). That is nothing to joke nor lie about. This Christmas one of my close friends was in a car wreck, and he lost members of his family. Now he must live with that pain for the rest of his life, and I, as a friend, feel for him as well. Car accidents or any form of injury is nothing to joke about. It is very serious, whether it be a minor accident or death. Do not kid around with it.

As for what Miranda, C.D, and Max said I guess I must agree. If they are willing to give you a third chance, then I will as well. Hopefully the third time is a charm. You do not have to be somebody else in order to fit in around here, just be yourself. No split-personalities please, just one of you will be fine, the non lying one preferably. Please make a conscience effort to be yourself and not what everyone would have you to be.

On a side not, if this is a sympathy post and you are sitting back amused at the way we are all giving you yet another chance, then shame on you. There are forgiving people on this board who have overlooked the fact you fact a suicide and your identity. There are good people on this board and we're not to be taken advantage of. Just had to say that...

Now that that has been said:

Welcome Back as Sarah:wave:

ks

Jinny Girl

01-10-2002, 07:40 PM

You know, it takes a very strange person to get upset about a bunch of people online who have never met her. My personal opinion is that you are a skitzophrenic loser who has absolutly no freinds. SO you come online and play mind games and get sympathy from people who are stupid enough to give it to you. I am not one of those people. If you choose tp stay finebut dont expect fair treatment. I'm a bitch and I'm good at it and as many people can tell you I cant seem to stop being mean. I know that by saying this tomorow someones gonna IM me to tell me that your freind named Mr Mavis came on the boards to say you jumped off a cliff. Not that thats a bad thing. If this is a sympathy post, if you come on here and pull the split personality "Me Myself and I" thing, or dare to cross me, I swear to the holy cow that I will destroy your being and torment you until your hair falls out and I am forced to saw your head off with a butter knife, while drinking beer from a wine glass, while sitting on a couch of pure cows fur with my dear freind kaley. I'd suggest wearing turtle neck sweaters from now on. *evil grin while doing the finger across the neck thing*

ISmellFine

01-10-2002, 07:51 PM

Originally posted by Jinny Girl
You know, it takes a very strange person to get upset about a bunch of people online who have never met her. My personal opinion is that you are a skitzophrenic loser who has absolutly no freinds. SO you come online and play mind games and get sympathy from people who are stupid enough to give it to you. I am not one of those people. If you choose tp stay finebut dont expect fair treatment. I'm a bitch and I'm good at it and as many people can tell you I cant seem to stop being mean. I know that by saying this tomorow someones gonna IM me to tell me that your freind named Mr Mavis came on the boards to say you jumped off a cliff. Not that thats a bad thing. If this is a sympathy post, if you come on here and pull the split personality "Me Myself and I" thing, or dare to cross me, I swear to the holy cow that I will destroy your being and torment you until your hair falls out and I am forced to saw your head off with a butter knife, while drinking beer from a wine glass, while sitting on a couch of pure cows fur with my dear freind kaley. I'd suggest wearing turtle neck sweaters from now on. *evil grin while doing the finger across the neck thing*

You're not the only bitch around here Dana Dogg. Mwah. But yeah, if you had in decency in you, sara, you would not have pretened to off your self, which is a sick thing to play with ,beucase suicide is an EXTREMLY serious thing, you woulnd have dont something like that. Eventhough I never believed your fake little story, some people took you very seriously. That's an extremly sick thing to do, because I know many people may have tried or thought about it. and thats just wrong to do something like that. sick sick sick.anyway,. yes. if your coming back to the boards, your not getting any niceness from me. i think two chances is enuff. so come back if you dare, but dont you DARE screw with me.

AllIWantIsYourClutch

01-10-2002, 08:13 PM

Originally posted by Nancy McKeon Rox

You're not the only bitch around here Dana Dogg. Mwah. But yeah, if you had in decency in you, sara, you would not have pretened to off your self, which is a sick thing to play with ,beucase suicide is an EXTREMLY serious thing, you woulnd have dont something like that. Eventhough I never believed your fake little story, some people took you very seriously. That's an extremly sick thing to do, because I know many people may have tried or thought about it. and thats just wrong to do something like that. sick sick sick.anyway,. yes. if your coming back to the boards, your not getting any niceness from me. i think two chances is enuff. so come back if you dare, but dont you DARE screw with me.

Ah i couldn't agree more!!

And also, lets just remind Sara how bad she made me (and Happy meal (?)) feel afer the whole suicide thing....saying my name was in the note....it takes a sick person to come up with something like that, let alone preted to kill themself!

gothic of darkness

01-10-2002, 08:24 PM

Hi, Sara.I don't know you (or anyone else on this board) because
I'm pretty new here and I haven't made any on-line buds yet, but
I feel that I should say a few things to you.First of all, I want you
to know that I can definitely relate to how you're feeling.I'm 16
now and I've changed & matured quite a bit, but I used to be like you when I was younger.I don't know how old you are, but I assume that you're a young kid (about 12) who's just trying to fit in.Believe me, I know how you feel.I used to do the dumbest stuff to get attention and I was also very sensitive like you.I hated being that way! I always wanted to be a tough girl and I really
admired people that had that kind of personality.Also, I was unbelievably shy and I got picked on a lot in elementary and middle school.Anyway, I understand that you lied because you
wanted to make yourself sound better and because you felt
that you should impress people.I did that kind of stuff too
when I felt bad about myself and I had low self-esteem since
I didn't fit in and thought that no one liked me.I'm not saying
that lying is a good thing because it's definitely not, but all
the people on this board who are pointing their fingers at
you are taking the whole thing way too seriously because
the truth of the matter is that EVERYONE lies and it's just
human nature.Nobody wants to admit it though.That was
pretty bad to fake suicide since there's a lot of people who
you affected and it was inconsiderate of you not to think
about other people's feelings, but it's over now...and in
the past. So don't beat yourself up about it, ok? people
make mistakes all the time and that's a fact.Alright, here
comes the moral of the story! hehe ;) being sensitive
isn't so bad, but you'll probably grow out of it anyway.
I sure as hell did! Now that I'm older....I'm pretty much
the complete opposite of sensitive.I'm a bad ass too!
haha....just kidding. Anyway, you'll be ok hun. :) Feel free
to IM me anytime, alright? I go on-line a lot and you can
check my profile for my screen names.

Nancy_Justine_Mckeon_01

01-10-2002, 08:40 PM

look sara you want to came back to the board fine do what you want you fooled us once you are not going to fool us again so dont expect any sympathy from us you need to learn how to tell the truth if you didnt find some people nice to talk to hey here is a fresh idea stop talking to them not make up that you killed your self miss center of attention cause of you,you made amy feel like a rotten person but guess what your the rotten person here thats just plain wrong what you did for like 3 months we thought you killed your self and now you come back and say iam really sorry but i lied i didnt kill myself are you a patholociacal liar or something you need to stop caring about what other peopel say and concentrate on your life just dont excpect any special treatment and just like kaley said if you come back fine but dont screw with me.:mad:

the_biggest_nancy_fanatic

01-11-2002, 09:17 PM

ok..kaley and umm...dana and amy IM me when ya read dis plz... tommygirl224488

the_biggest_nancy_fanatic

01-11-2002, 11:49 PM

okies i told myself i wasent gonna get inta dis crap again cuz i had enough of it but i was readin ova what everyone said and it jus made me think bout wut i went through...and i can speak for the others(kass,kie,and nikki) for da second thing n e wayz...

ok well u told the others bout u not really killin urself but you jus.."forgot" to mention it to me..that was thanksgiving..yeah.right after my gram died.you dont know how badly that ruined my holiday.i thought i had lost a great friend..my family was there that weekend from out of town and i was misrible..i member hwen i found out i was at the hall's and kimie came in and it was 1:00am and i jus read dat..and geez i was liek in shock...that is not a great feeling sara and i know ur sorry but still...that was jus wrong and i cannot forgive you for it ever.it hurt..bad..dont ever fake suicide...that is a very serious thing

and as for the whole rape thing...now that was an awful thing to do.do you know how serious that is??? and to think we all pityed you for it...and why?jus because we didnt pay more attention that you were sick...i mean really how bad is that?
that is not what friendship is all about..friendship is honesty and frankly i dont know how you can come back here and jus expect everyone to forgive you..sure i know some peepz can forgive ya cuz dey didnt know ya very well bt i thoguht we were pretty close ya know and it hurts when ya hear dat ur friend is being hurt or even DIED! i just can't trust you anymore.that hurts cuz used to know a gurl dat was my friend named sara ut i dunno where she went..all those times u caleld me after u said he did it/...i mean..geez sara you even di it WHILE MY GRAM WAS DYING IN THE HOSPITAL!!!!!!!!!! as if i wasent under enough stress already!geez!!!its jus not right and ya really hurt alot of people

the_biggest_nancy_fanatic

01-12-2002, 12:34 AM

ok excuse me i for got to mention the whole nancy thing...yeah..

ok..HOW COULD U DO THAT TO ME N NIKKI WHEN U KNOW HOW CRAZY WE ARE LIKE THAT!!?!?!!?!? huh?u had us histaricle!!!we are still tryin ta figure out wut dat was about?i mean that really isnt a true friend if you could do that to us..then blame it on your dad..i mean that is jus wrong ok?

and righthere i'm posting for kie..right now she cant post..she is shaking right now becuz she is jus so stressed over all that u lied..we are all in a chat room and she is jus...hurt..and so r me n nikki n kas..i mean kie..she wrote all dem songs n stuff and cried every night like all da rest of us cuz of it..it hurt sara and i hope ya feel the pain we felt 'cept 10 times more!

jo_24

01-12-2002, 08:39 AM

I agree with everyone else... ThOsE are very-very... VERY serious issues. That is NOT something to lie about! First you lied about meeting NMK-yeah I was there when you did that... soooo not cool. and now this? suicide is something that is not approved of by me. If you actually did feel like that- then you need to see a shrink. I'll be nice- just because that's me- but don't expect any special treatment! :mad:

Adele

01-12-2002, 11:28 AM

IF she felt that way she needs to see a shrink? Ha...in this case....a shrink should be mandatory no matter what.

NMKfan

06-02-2006, 06:46 PM

I'm the same Kiera who knew Sara then and I know her now... far as I know, I'm the only one who still talks to her and has forgiven her, for whatever reason. just wanted to let everyone know she doesn't lie like that anymore and things have been pretty cool, though the only one I keep in contact with anymore is Kassie (Kas) I haven't talked to Lauren (Laur) or Nikki in years and I'm not expecting to anytime soon. But, aside from my babbling, she is better now and has quit all she's done in the past.

Jo_Luvs_Ketchup

06-02-2006, 07:04 PM

Hmmm well I don't know the situation but I'm sure whatever she did, she should be forgiven.

NMKfan

06-02-2006, 07:11 PM

Hmmm well I don't know the situation but I'm sure whatever she did, she should be forgiven.

look up my name and read posts such as "Moo, I'm Sorry, for kas, kie, laur & nikki, nobody else!" and other posts to get the whole info :) I choose not to bring it up unless in AIM.... which you're welcome to IM me cuz I haven't talked to you in FOREVA! (kmk727)

JessieOrJinny

06-03-2006, 01:43 PM

NMKfan

06-03-2006, 01:48 PM

I have no clue what happened but I read all pages..i didn't sign up here til 03 lol. but yeah people make mistakes..bad ones and even though it was wrong i think she should of been forgiven she at least apologized and spent all that time writing..she did not have to do that.

the thing is, the thing that she did was very very... well I can't even really begin to explain, but it's all done and over with now and yeah, I'm the only one that's forgiven her for it. heck, I didn't even know about half the stuff that's actually on here, but I forgave her for the things I did know about. this thread hasn't been posted on in ages and back then it was a good time, but then during the good, came the bad and well, the Facts of Life theme said it all! ;) :lol: :wave: