View Full Version : Have you ever been betrayed by a friend?
Brian Damage
07-02-2006, 12:37 PM
Have you ever had a friend that you found out talked about you behind your back or screwed you over some how? It has happened to me when I was younger and it hurt like heck. The worst feeling in the world is thinking somebody likes you and then talks behind your back. Has it ever happened to any of you?
G-Force Glockstar
07-02-2006, 01:10 PM
Sometimes :(
I can be a social reject since I'm kind of a dork and really shy, so sometimes my friends might go off and do something and forget to invite me.
evilNpunk
07-02-2006, 01:28 PM
I had a friend betray me BIG TIME quite a while back. I wont go into the story because its a pretty lengthy story. We didnt talk for years and just completely avoided each other until we had to sit next to each other in class one year. We're on talking terms now, friendly talking terms, but we'll never be friends again or call each other or anything.
Stuck In The '70's
07-02-2006, 01:30 PM
Yea that's happened to me before on more than one occasion. When I was in school a couple of my so called friends spread a rumor of me. I think that affected me all through the rest of my school years. I've had other friends since that I thought were cool but I later found out they were talking about me too. It sucks.
Mr. Stefani
07-02-2006, 01:50 PM
yeah and i've betrayed friends at times. id like to meet someone who hasn't.
Brad Russ
07-02-2006, 01:51 PM
Iv'e had that happen to me. My true friends I care about so much, that I would never even think of talking behind their back. My enemies on the other hand, I'll talk behind their back, to their face, to their sides, or wherever else. :lol: If you have an issue with a friend though, I think you atleast should give them the courtesy of saying it to their face. But yeah, unfortunately I have had this happen to me before, and you're right, it's a horrible feeling. It makes you wonder if they were ever really your friend to begin with.
Janice
07-02-2006, 02:04 PM
In "real life", I haven't had experiences that were so bad. Online friendships are another story. I could write a book.
I know of one person who thought they had a good friend in an online community. Turns out that person was the biggest backstabber going. Trying to turn people against the poor person...even creating a bogus case against this person to the Administrator of the site, and anyone else who would listen.
It was one of the worst betrayals I've ever seen. Sneaky, manipulative, and downright nasty. I thought I had seen it all until I witnessed that.
Shine
07-02-2006, 02:08 PM
In "real life", I haven't had experiences that were so bad. Online friendships are another story. I could write a book.
I know of one person who thought they had a good friend in an online community. Turns out that person was the biggest backstabber going. Trying to turn people against the poor person...even creating a bogus case against this person to the Administrator of the site, and anyone else who would listen.
It was one of the worst betrayals I've ever seen. Sneaky, manipulative, and downright nasty. I thought I had seen it all until I witnessed that.
It is sad that someone here at Sitcoms Online would do such a thing. :(
G-Force Glockstar
07-02-2006, 02:17 PM
In "real life", I haven't had experiences that were so bad. Online friendships are another story. I could write a book.
I know of one person who thought they had a good friend in an online community. Turns out that person was the biggest backstabber going. Trying to turn people against the poor person...even creating a bogus case against this person to the Administrator of the site, and anyone else who would listen.
It was one of the worst betrayals I've ever seen. Sneaky, manipulative, and downright nasty. I thought I had seen it all until I witnessed that.
Wow, who was it? :(
Shine
07-02-2006, 02:22 PM
Wow, who was it? :(
I don't think she is going to tell us. :lol: It is really sad though. :( I wish everyone here could simply get along.
Brian Damage
07-02-2006, 02:23 PM
It is sad that someone here at Sitcoms Online would do such a thing. :(
I agree
In "real life", I haven't had experiences that were so bad. Online friendships are another story. I could write a book.
I know of one person who thought they had a good friend in an online community. Turns out that person was the biggest backstabber going. Trying to turn people against the poor person...even creating a bogus case against this person to the Administrator of the site, and anyone else who would listen.
It was one of the worst betrayals I've ever seen. Sneaky, manipulative, and downright nasty. I thought I had seen it all until I witnessed that.
I remember that, it was horrible.
Stuck In The '70's
07-02-2006, 02:27 PM
In "real life", I haven't had experiences that were so bad. Online friendships are another story. I could write a book.
I know of one person who thought they had a good friend in an online community. Turns out that person was the biggest backstabber going. Trying to turn people against the poor person...even creating a bogus case against this person to the Administrator of the site, and anyone else who would listen.
It was one of the worst betrayals I've ever seen. Sneaky, manipulative, and downright nasty. I thought I had seen it all until I witnessed that.
That is terrible. Some people have no conscious. :ohno:
Moonlight Lady
07-02-2006, 04:05 PM
I've gone through that more offline. In school mostly. It definitely hurts and trust goes out the window.
I agree with Sonny. Some people just don't give a damn about who they hurt.
G-Force Glockstar
07-02-2006, 04:52 PM
I don't think she is going to tell us. :lol: It is really sad though. :( I wish everyone here could simply get along.
Oh....when did it happen?
strawberry cupcake
07-02-2006, 05:27 PM
i hurt someone here a long time ago, and even to this day it still eats away at me and hurts my heart. i wish and hope one day this person can find it in her heart to forgive me because she was my best friend here and i totally ripped her apart with what i did. i wish i had never done it.
god bless you, holly.
Mr. Stefani
07-02-2006, 05:51 PM
i hurt someone here a long time ago, and even to this day it still eats away at me and hurts my heart. i wish and hope one day this person can find it in her heart to forgive me because she was my best friend here and i totally ripped her apart with what i did. i wish i had never done it.
god bless you, holly.
p.s. i'm probably the one janice is talking about.
dorothy is that you?
MsOrange
07-02-2006, 05:58 PM
p.s. i'm probably the one janice is talking about.
i doubt that
Czas na Zywiec
07-02-2006, 06:24 PM
how's the baby?
strawberry cupcake
07-02-2006, 06:40 PM
yeah, it's me.
Hollow
07-02-2006, 06:53 PM
i hurt someone here a long time ago, and even to this day it still eats away at me and hurts my heart. i wish and hope one day this person can find it in her heart to forgive me because she was my best friend here and i totally ripped her apart with what i did. i wish i had never done it.
god bless you, holly.
p.s. i'm probably the one janice is talking about.
that bitch totally betrayed me after she left. for no reason. just stopped talking to me and announced months later on her site (shortly after i left a message in her guestbook) that "people i don't talk to anymore are on my site, well go away because i don't like you anymore, call me a bitch but i've just moved on" and blah blah blah...and what a nice way of moving on it was, just completely leaving those behind in the dark about it. it really hurt....i'd been going through a horrible time and she was the only person i knew who understood me and she was the last person i expected to turn me. to an extent i still miss talking to her, but **** her. that hypocrite whined and cried and "threw up" and bitched at you about "you don't knoooooow how you beeetraaayed me, n ah dun loooove yooooou aaaaanyyyymooore" and then does the same thing to someone else. nice.
i think i know who janice is talking about but i doubt it's you, at least as far as i know you never made up things about her and reported them to TJ.
strawberry cupcake
07-02-2006, 06:58 PM
that bitch totally betrayed me after she left. for no reason. just stopped talking to me and announced months later on her site (shortly after i left a message in her guestbook) that "people i don't talk to anymore are on my site, well go away because i don't like you anymore, call me a bitch but i've just moved on" and blah blah blah...and what a nice way of moving on it was, just completely leaving those behind in the dark about it. it really hurt....i'd been going through a horrible time and she was the only person i knew who understood me and she was the last person i expected to turn me. to an extent i still miss talking to her, but **** her. that hypocrite whined and cried and "threw up" and bitched at you about "you don't knoooooow how you beeetraaayed me, n ah dun loooove yooooou aaaaanyyyymooore" and then does the same thing to someone else. nice.
sarah, hey, nice too see ya again.
yeah, i knew she'd quit talking to you and i couldn't understand why, pretty much ya'll were on the same team. but anyway it's a dead issue and i was the one at fault in that situation.
strawberry cupcake
07-02-2006, 07:00 PM
i think i know who janice is talking about but i doubt it's you, at least as far as i know you never made up things about her and reported them to TJ.
oh, well she may not have been. true, i never spread lies to tj about holly.
my badd
Janice
07-02-2006, 07:36 PM
I don't want to get anyone fighting on this thread, that's for sure. I never even said it was this online community, or not.
It was not my intention to have members reliving their bad SO experiences.
passionsfan79
07-02-2006, 08:25 PM
Not that I recal which is good
Brian Damage
07-02-2006, 08:31 PM
I was betrayed by my ex fiance. I was saving up money in a bank account to give her the wedding of her dreams. I say I because I was the only one working at the time. I saved up to 10,000 dollars. One day I receive a bank statement that said I had a negative balance. I was shocked. I called my ex and asked what happened and she said it must be a computer error. I wasn't satisfied with that answer so I went to the bank. I found out that both my ex and her fat hippo bitch mother stole all the money out of the account. Her family were poor. They were on welfare and were cheating the government at the same time. Long Story. Needless to say, I broke up with that girl and never looked back.
Courtnee
07-02-2006, 08:36 PM
I've been betrayed by a boyfriend
one day he's holding me and kissing me and then boom, he wants "space"
Number 9 Dream
07-02-2006, 10:03 PM
That sounds like something that happened to me...god, it was a nightmare.
Anyway, I had a best friend named Dana from 4-9th grade, but I found out in 8th grade she was stealing from me behind my back (surely but steadily taking clothes, c.d.s, etc from my house). She had a lot of emotional problems too, so in a way I'm glad it happened so I could get rid of her (I also moved in 9th grade, so that helped things).
In "real life", I haven't had experiences that were so bad. Online friendships are another story. I could write a book.
I know of one person who thought they had a good friend in an online community. Turns out that person was the biggest backstabber going. Trying to turn people against the poor person...even creating a bogus case against this person to the Administrator of the site, and anyone else who would listen.
It was one of the worst betrayals I've ever seen. Sneaky, manipulative, and downright nasty. I thought I had seen it all until I witnessed that.
dawsongirl
07-02-2006, 10:13 PM
Have you ever had a friend that you found out talked about you behind your back or screwed you over some how? It has happened to me when I was younger and it hurt like heck. The worst feeling in the world is thinking somebody likes you and then talks behind your back. Has it ever happened to any of you?
Oh yeah....pretty much like that too. My ex-friend and college roommate. She'd make fun of me in emails to her mom. Another friend of mine (God rest that poor girl's soul) got into my roommate's email and showed them to me.
She was so jealous of me she couldn't see straight. Worst part is, she got most of the girls I hung out with in 11th and 12th grade to hate me. I still hate her guts to this day.
dawsongirl
07-02-2006, 10:17 PM
p.s. i'm probably the one janice is talking about.
and here I thought she was talking about me. :lol:
maybe we're both right.
Janice
07-03-2006, 12:27 AM
and here I thought she was talking about me. :lol:
maybe we're both right.
Nooooo. Don't be silly. :)
Janice
07-03-2006, 12:31 AM
I found out that both my ex and her fat hippo bitch mother stole all the money out of the account.
It sounds like you dodged a bullet on that one Brian. You know the old saying. If you want to know what your wife will look like when she gets older, look at her mother. :lol:
Hollow
07-03-2006, 04:57 AM
anyway yes, i'd never be able to try to look back and count how many times i've been betrayed by friends for no apparent reason, online and off, it's happened pretty regularly my entire life. probably half of the people i've befriended eventually decided i was just a loser and showed it by leaving me in the dark about everything and gradually with verbal insults. it really hurts but i'm never actually surprised when it happens; i always expect it to sooner or later. but i end up crying almost every time. that's just how ****ty of a social life i have.
Bobby F.
07-03-2006, 10:32 AM
I was betrayed by my ex fiance. I was saving up money in a bank account to give her the wedding of her dreams. I say I because I was the only one working at the time. I saved up to 10,000 dollars. One day I receive a bank statement that said I had a negative balance. I was shocked. I called my ex and asked what happened and she said it must be a computer error. I wasn't satisfied with that answer so I went to the bank. I found out that both my ex and her fat hippo bitch mother stole all the money out of the account. Her family were poor. They were on welfare and were cheating the government at the same time. Long Story. Needless to say, I broke up with that girl and never looked back.
I had a girlfriend who also had one of these: "fat hippo bitch mother". The girlfriend was chunky and was probably on the way to being one of those. Of course I had always heard that fat-chicks try harder. If you get my meaning.:D Never found out with her though. Sucks for me! Anyway, the only betrayal I can remember was loaning a buddy a good amount of money and never seeing any of it in return.
Chain Gang Member
07-03-2006, 11:55 AM
My friend betrayed me just because she didn't want to admit that she liked me
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