My Mom's being ridiculous!!!

[G-Force Glockstar]

Forget the spelling.....anyway, I'm trying to go on a heathly diet. Just Special K for breakfast and that's it.

Anyway, my Mom's trying to make me eat at least 1,200 calories a day!! :rolleyes: She made me eat a salad tonight with rach dressing, cheese, AND bacon!! Or I'd miss American Idol. Now she wants me to go eat more rice, but I'm not going to (she doesn't know).

Geez, doesn't she know how it feels to be fat and trying and trying to lose weight??!!!!

Sorry, I had to post this! My Mom's being pathetic!! Trying to make me eat more so I can be more fat!
I'm 99 pounds now (I went to the doctors two days ago), I don't feel like gaining it back and gaining more weight :rolleyes:

[G-Force Glockstar]

.....I still have 73 more calories to burn off tonight.

[Hollow]

you can gain weight from not eating enough.

[Pus$y Galore]

Nik - how often do we have to go over this!! You are a growing girl. Growing girls need calories that their body burns and uses for that growth alone. 1200 calories a day for a girl your age, height and weight is very reasonable. Enjoy it. And especially if you're exercising like you are. Now shuddup and eat and do what your mom says!!! You know I'll tell ya straight now!! ;) :bighug: tough love!!!

[¤Graced¤]

Well, I can't disagree with your mom here.

To be healthy, a girl your age should eat ATLEAST 2000 calories a day. You're still growing.

[G-Force Glockstar]

you can gain weight from not eating enough.

No, because a weight rule is "Eat less, excerise more". And that's what I'm doing. My parents don't know what I'm doing is right.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Nik - how often do we have to go over this!! You are a growing girl. Growing girls need calories that their body burns and uses for that growth alone. 1200 calories a day for a girl your age, height and weight is very reasonable. Enjoy it. And especially if you're exercising like you are. Now shuddup and eat and do what your mom says!!! You know I'll tell ya straight now!! ;) :bighug: tough love!!!

But I can't think straight :(
I keep having this thought that I'm becoming obese. :crazy:

[Pus$y Galore]

No, because a weight rule is "Eat less, excerise more". And that's what I'm doing. My parents don't know what I'm doing is right.


No 13 year old girl should be dieting unless she's obese (which again, is for her health) - just as you eating the required calories as long as you're exercising - you need them to grow. You complain how short you are - well - whaddya expect?

[Pus$y Galore]

But I can't think straight :(
I keep having this thought that I'm becoming obese. :crazy:


How long ago did you post your pic and everyone told you that you look great - 4 days?

[G-Force Glockstar]

No 13 year old girl should be dieting unless she's obese (which again, is for her health) - just as you eating the required calories as long as you're exercising - you need them to grow. You complain how short you are - well - whaddya expect?

I'm not short :lol:

Plus I already said I have this thought that I'm becoming obese :(

[G-Force Glockstar]

How long ago did you post your pic and everyone told you that you look great - 4 days?

I guess I don't see what they see.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

Um, hello, if you dont get atleast 1200 calories a day your body goes into starvation mode and starts storing fat.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Um, hello, if you dont get atleast 1200 calories a day your body goes into starvation mode and starts storing fat.

Oh......that's weird.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

99 pounds is on the way to obese? Sounds more like anorexia to me...

[Hollow]

No, because a weight rule is "Eat less, excerise more". And that's what I'm doing. My parents don't know what I'm doing is right.
That's just a myth. I know the facts, and what you're doing ISN'T right. Not eating enough WILL make you gain weight. you're still growing, and you need at least a few thousand calories a day to be healthy.

[Rebel Queen 1980]

You change your diet still if your weight is harming you in some way,Even
if it isn't,Eat sensibly,drink lots of fluids and exercise regularly. I need
to exercise because I have alot stomach problems every now and then,
But even though my mom often angers me sometime.She's helpful too
me on obese issues and she nevers acts like a total bitch about it either.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

Oh......that's weird.
Well, when you starve itself your body has nothing in its system to live off of so it starts to store fat so it can survive.

[Pus$y Galore]

I guess I don't see what they see.


No you don't - again, like I've said before - its an image problem you have, not weight. Let's not go into the whole ED thread again - that went something like 288 pages by the time we were through! Just reread it when you get these thoughts. Speak to a teacher or counsellor at your school.

Frankly in that picture I honestly thought you were the prettiest girl so if the others were your sisters or whatever - what does that tell you. I really can't go into the ED thing all over again - its exhausting for me. But that's what this is developing into - not a weight problem. Think about it for a minute - why would your mother want an obese child? Especially when she has two others who aren't (either). Doesn't add up right - simple as that. Case closed.

[Hollow]

I guess I don't see what they see.
I saw your picture, and i can assure you that i mean this and i'm not just sucking up to you to make you feel good.. YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY FINE. I couldn't believe you've been complaining about your weight. Your sisters definitely just brainwashed you into thinking you're fat, because you're NOT. you look more on the slim side to me.

[Pus$y Galore]

I saw your picture, and i can assure you that i mean this and i'm not just sucking up to you to make you feel good.. YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY FINE. I couldn't believe you've been complaining about your weight. Your sisters definitely just brainwashed you into thinking you're fat, because you're NOT. you look more on the slim side to me.


That's just what I told her too - only this and in IMs!!! :nod:

[MsOrange]

not this again....

[Georgia's on my Mind]

and you have an eating disorder...get over yourself.

[PZelda]

I'm going to say what the others have been saying:

- Get AT LEAST 1800 - 2000 calories per day. You're almost 14 and you're still growing. Your body NEEDS the calories. At your age, you currently have fast metabolism, meaning it's very easy for your body to burn off the calories by itself. That's why you're 99 lbs now.

- Listen to your mother. She IS looking out for you. If you listen to her, you will be glad you did.

[Brent88]

:rolleyes:

This... AGAIN?

You MUST eat... you should not at all be worried about your weight. Your 90 lbs at what, 13 or 14 right? That's practically UNDERWEIGHT when you look at a chart with other people your age. I don't see what's unreasonable about eating.

[Hollow]

I'm 99 pounds now (I went to the doctors two days ago), I don't feel like gaining it back and gaining more weight :rolleyes:
99 lbs? YOUR WEIGHT IS IN THE DOUBLE DIGITS AT 5'0" AND YOU'RE WORRIED ABOUT BECOMING OBESE?

[SBTB Geek]

Listen to your mother.

[Belair]

You're 99 pounds and think you need to lose weight? It sounds like you're at risk of developing an eating disorder.You aren't thinking very healthy right now,and your Mum is looking out for you.Forget this whole attitude that shes trying to make you obese.Its absurd! She just wants you to be healthy,and at a healthy body weight.

Dont think about it all the time either.Its dangerous when one becomes obsessed with their weight.

[Lee]

Originally posted by Belair:
You're 99 pounds and think you need to lose weight? It sounds like you're at risk of developing an eating disorder.You aren't thinking very healthy right now,and your Mum is looking out for you.Forget this whole attitude that shes trying to make you obese.Its absurd! She just wants you to be healthy,and at a healthy body weight.

Dont think about it all the time either.Its dangerous when one becomes obsessed with their weight.


I agree 100% with you.

[bandito]

Listen to your mother, she's right. If you want to lose weight eat less portions and exercise... You will be fine. :)

[Rhiannon]

I'm 99 pounds now (I went to the doctors two days ago), :

How tall are you? I'm 17 years old, 5'2" and I weight 104. I could gain more weight without it hurting me, Ive tried, but it doesn't work. If that picture you showed us a couple days ago was a current one, you're crazy thinking you're fat!

[*MIBabe03*]

Look, when I was a little bit older than you I thought the same thing. It started out with eating a few things a day. The next thing I knew, I started eating a half a sandwich a day! I went from 202 to 140 eating like that. I thought it was great, until I started experiencing heart palpitations, and losing my hair, and almost passing out daily. The way you are describing this, you are on your way to doing it. Please don't!

[swedeace]

Cravin'forCarrie: Your sisters have definitely brainwashed you. You looked absolutely great in that picture you posted! Really!! :) Remember, you MUST hold your head high and be proud. Do not listen to them. They are only brats, in my eyes. The rice is great for you. It has that active energy your body needs for stored energy so you're not always tired or dragging by the end of the day.

You're a growing girl, so just eating the right foods (like the one your mom is feeding you) is naturally good for you. We don't want to see you heading down the wrong path. It's quicker to destroy yourself than bring yourself up to being healthy - keep that in mind....

[Penny Lane]

1200 calories a day used to be considered a crash diet. Is it still? :confused:

[Pus$y Galore]

1200 calories a day used to be considered a crash diet. Is it still? :confused:


YES!!!! No wonder her mother is on her case. Anyone would be. 1200 calorie a day diets are for people who are morbidly obese. Not for young, slim, healthy girls that should be growing instead of trying to stunt their growths!!

[Penny Lane]

Sounds to me like this is what you're heading for. ................ :eek:

Please stop it now! Get some help! :eek:

[Pus$y Galore]

Sounds to me like this is what you're heading for. ................ :eek:

Please stop it now! Get some help! :eek:

And that's exactly what it looks like too. They don't even show the face in that shot - or her hair falling out, bruising, cracks at the corners of her mouth, dry skin, intestinal problems and all the other wonderful things that come with being that emaciated.

We've all gone over this with Nikki before. She knows what's right.

[G-Force Glockstar]

My Mom said I'm gonna get my computer taken out of my room now probably :rolleyes: :(

I'm thinking about just becoming obese now (by eating what I have to), then when I move out I can starve myself and tell my mom off!

Sorry guys, this isn't easy :(

[G-Force Glockstar]

Sounds to me like this is what you're heading for. ................ :eek:

Please stop it now! Get some help! :eek:

Everyone thinks I'm mental because I wanna be a stick like my sisters are (but they're more underweight than sticks).

[Pus$y Galore]

Everyone thinks I'm mental because I wanna be a stick like my sisters are (but they're more underweight than sticks).



So what does that tell you?

[G-Force Glockstar]

So what does that tell you?

I still think my doctors, parents, and grandparents are all wrong and they just don't understand what a risk obesity is.

[Brent88]

Oh Puh-Leeze. :rolleyes: Shouldn't you be worrying about a test or friends or something? This is RIDICLOUS!!!

Starving yourself is not the way to keep from getting obese. I eat all kinds of fatty and greasy food as well as junk food and I'm not even close to being overweight, and understand, I don't exercise much.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Oh Puh-Leeze. :rolleyes: Shouldn't you be worrying about a test or friends or something? This is RIDICLOUS!!!

Starving yourself is not the way to keep from getting obese. I eat all kinds of fatty and greasy food as well as junk food and I'm not even close to being overweight, and understand, I don't exercise much.

I'm not starving myself. I said I was on a diet, I just wanna eat Special K (which is GOOD for you) for breakfast and that's it for the day.

I don't skip breakfast because that's what starts up your metasolism.

[dlemond]

I still think my doctors, parents, and grandparents are all wrong and they just don't understand what a risk obesity is.

Yes, doctors know less than children.

That is how it goes.


I think you are just asking for attention because you sound ridiculous and you know it.

I don't even think you know the definition of obesity or what weight and body fat is a health concern. And yes your doctor knows.

And you did say "doctors"- plural.
At this point I'm assuming one is a psychologist.

Can we end this stupidy now, please?

[*MIBabe03*]

Girl, you're not obese!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are the one that does not understand the definition of the word. At your age, what you weight is normal. Now if you weighed 160, then you would be obese.

[Kay Scarpetta]

OH MY GOD, look. You can starve yourself and think you're "fat" and everything else, but you know what? You're going to end up A] dead, or B] eventually in a psychiatric hospital for rehabilitation. I've BEEN THERE. Not for eating disorders, for other issues- but my point is, a lot of my fellow crazies, as we used to call ourselves, were in there for eating disorders, whether it be anorexia or bulimia. You do not want to be in there. You'll be in there for at least a month for eating disorders because they need you to gain weight, and you will not be released until you gain the max weight they want you to. They will assign you psychiatrists and social workers to start picking and examining you. Your meals for the day will consist of a personalized diet, and you cannot leave the table until you have finished what they want you to eat. You will endure 4-5 hours of group therapy a day. After that, they will get a nutritionist assigned to you to breathe down your back and tell you what to eat when you go home.

One of my best friends was with me in rehab for bulimia, among other things, and to this day we are still best friends. I witnessed her suffering, and let me tell you. It's not pretty. I honestly suggest you get help before it's too late, because I can guarantee you- once you enter a psychiatric hospital, you will wish you never did this to yourself.

[Pus$y Galore]

I still think my doctors, parents, and grandparents are all wrong and they just don't understand what a risk obesity is.


Oh yeah - some guy who went to university for 8 years and people who have experienced a lot more in life know absolutely nothing compared to a 13 year old or an 11 and 9 year old for that matter.
Do you even know what obesity means? Its when you're 30 - 40 lbs overweight. Morbidly obese is like 70 - 100 lbs or more overweight. Now look at yourself in the mirror and if you can honestly say that you're 30 lbs overweight you can diet. If not - go back and reread the bzillion pages on your "WTF?" thread from two months ago.
If you want to put yourself and your family through hell then fine, but don't come running to us when you can no longer pull yourself out of it. We've warned you nicely, we've warned you not so nicely so I don't know what more it takes than that. :mad: :2mad

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

I'm not starving myself. I said I was on a diet, I just wanna eat Special K (which is GOOD for you) for breakfast and that's it for the day.

I don't skip breakfast because that's what starts up your metasolism.
Metabolism wears off if you dont FEED yourself. Hello, starving yourself SLOWS DOWN YOUR METABOLISM. Honestly, I dont know why you make threads like this if youre not gonna listen to us. I think we know a little more about this than you do.

[Superstar]

You're not obese. You're not fat either. You really need to stop think you are or you will get some kind of eating disorder.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Metabolism wears off if you dont FEED yourself. Hello, starving yourself SLOWS DOWN YOUR METABOLISM. Honestly, I dont know why you make threads like this if youre not gonna listen to us. I think we know a little more about this than you do.

I had 275 calories so far.....would it hurt to go eat some rice? Or is my metabolism already too slow?

[Superstar]

I'm not starving myself. I said I was on a diet, I just wanna eat Special K (which is GOOD for you) for breakfast and that's it for the day.

I don't skip breakfast because that's what starts up your metasolism.
Eat Special K for your breakfast. But eat something OTHER than Special K. You shouldn't miss out on eating lunch or dinner.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

I had 275 calories so far.....would it hurt to go eat some rice? Or is my metabolism already too slow?
Duuuuuude 275 calories just for today?! Its not even 2pm in Indiana yet.. damn. To keep your metabolism up, you should be eating HEALTHY [I.E. fruits, veggies, etc] meals and snacks every 2 hours or so. Breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, dinner, snack/dessert. I myself am on a 1200 [though sometimes Ill go to 1500 or less] calorie diet and Ive been like this since the beginning of January. Im not going to lie and will admit that the first few weeks I starved myself. I became obsessed with calorie counting and tried to keep it between 600-800. If I went anywhere near 1000 the guilt was unbearable. I dont know why, but I always get like that starting a diet. Luckily, reality hit me and I changed my ways before I crashed. Like I said, Ive been doing the 1200-1500 calorie intake for almost 5 months now and Ive since lost 25 pounds. I also exercise reguarly on tony [though lately Ive been slacking] and sometimes take multi vitamins. Though Im still totally overweight and want to lose the other 35 pounds to reach my goal, I feel great. My pants dont fit anymore, I feel better, and my hair is healthier. Im also no longer getting stomache problems because before I overate to the point where I wanted to throw up.

I know the mentality you have right now, because I started off the same way, but if you dont do something to change, you will crash and burn.

[Kay Scarpetta]

I had 275 calories so far.....would it hurt to go eat some rice? Or is my metabolism already too slow?
It's already 2 in the afternoon and you've only eaten 275 calories? My God, you need to start eating. I don't care if you eat dog ****, as long as you are intaking something into your body.

Everyone else here has tried to warn you numerous times. I've tried to warn you about ending up in a nuthouse. You can choose to ignore my warning, which I obviously see you have, but once they send you away, don't come running back here.

[Czas na Zywiec]

If you were actually serious, you'd take the suggestions given to you more seriously. Or at least act a little more sincere than "MY MOMS GOING TO TAKE AWAY MY COMPUTER, IM ONLY EATING SPECIAL K ITS HEALTHY, MY PARENTS ARE BEING REDECOLUOS, IS A GRAIN OF RICE GOING TO RUIN MY DIET??? IM SO OBESE AT 99 LBS :(" and so on and forth. Sounds to me like you're making it up just to get a little attention. Well, you're getting the attention you want, but you're losing all credibility of being a sane person.

[G-Force Glockstar]

I'm just gonna shut up now. I just had two bowls of rice, that's all I'm sayin' now.


PS- I'm not trying to get attention!

[Rhiannon]

I still think my doctors, parents, and grandparents are all wrong and they just don't understand what a risk obesity is.

Yes, you're doctor, who spent years in school studying medicine, your grandparents who have lived long to experience everything, and your parents who were raised by your grandparents are ALL WRONG, and you- a 13-14 year old who is still in middle school are right about health risks.

[spunkygirl]

My aunt starved herself as a teen, and she's paying the price for it now(she's 58), she's very obese now and can't lose the weight because her body compensated for not eating for so long her metabolism is all screwed up.

So never starve yourself, you seem to be very healthy and at the right weight :)

[Michael [hXc]]

this is getting really annoying. 99 pounds, fat? i weigh 107 and i'm 5'4 1/2 and i hardly call anything in that range fat. for your own good, EAT SOMETHING ALREADY. gorge yourself, eat everything, stuff your face. you're only harming yourself and you will only realize this when it's too late.

so you'd rather be in a hospital getting all sorts of treatments, being so thin it's unhealthy, and have health problems than being a normal weight (which you are)? sure seems like it to me.

[Pus$y Galore]

My aunt starved herself as a teen, and she's paying the price for it now(she's 58), she's very obese now and can't lose the weight because her body compensated for not eating for so long her metabolism is all screwed up.

So never starve yourself, you seem to be very healthy and at the right weight :)


Exactly what happened to Kirsty Alley - Oprah and a million other women.

Nik - when will you get all this through your head. The crazy thing is that she doesn't need to lose a pound even!! :crazy: She's even heard all this first hand from recovering anorexics/bulimics like myself. I wasn't angry before, but after all we told her in reams of posts, she posts this again. All this after seeing her doctor and PROMISING me and others she wouldn't address this again and would start eating properly.

[Hollow]

I still think my doctors, parents, and grandparents are all wrong and they just don't understand what a risk obesity is.
You really think that you, a 13-year old who didn't even know that starving helps you gain weight, know more about dieting than health experts who spent YEARS studying this in college, and other other people generations older than you? What, do you think obesity is unhealthy and eating disorders AREN'T?

[Kazza]

Seems like you have a great support group here of friends and you still don't want to listen to them. 275 calories for a girl that's turning into a woman are not enough.I think you have an eating disorder thinking that at 99 lbs you are overweight..If you don't eat properly, your body will start to shut down and you'll end up in a hospital where they'll probably give you a lot of food over an IV; why not spare yourself from the pain and eat for real? We all want the best for you and you need to stop thinking that your mom or we are nagging at you.

[Hollow]

If you were actually serious, you'd take the suggestions given to you more seriously. Or at least act a little more sincere than "MY MOMS GOING TO TAKE AWAY MY COMPUTER, IM ONLY EATING SPECIAL K ITS HEALTHY, MY PARENTS ARE BEING REDECOLUOS, IS A GRAIN OF RICE GOING TO RUIN MY DIET??? IM SO OBESE AT 99 LBS :(" and so on and forth. Sounds to me like you're making it up just to get a little attention. Well, you're getting the attention you want, but you're losing all credibility of being a sane person.
i don't understand why she makes so many threads complaining about someone telling her to just eat something, and entirely ignores every word spoken to her about it.

[dawsongirl]

I'm 99 pounds now (I went to the doctors two days ago), I don't feel like gaining it back and gaining more weight :rolleyes:

If 99 is obese, then I'm a :cow:. I may not be skinny, but I'm not a :cow:

Seriously, if you honestly think this way, maybe you need to talk to a specialist, psychiatrist, doctor in general. That kind of thinking is not normal and not healthy. We wouldn't want to see you delve into anorexia.

[dawsongirl]

Metabolism wears off if you dont FEED yourself. Hello, starving yourself SLOWS DOWN YOUR METABOLISM. Honestly, I dont know why you make threads like this if youre not gonna listen to us. I think we know a little more about this than you do.

Precisely why starving African children have fat bellies.

[dawsongirl]

You MUST eat... you should not at all be worried about your weight. Your 90 lbs at what, 13 or 14 right? That's practically UNDERWEIGHT when you look at a chart with other people your age. I don't see what's unreasonable about eating.

At 14, I probably weighed 115. And I wasn't really that fat. Just out of shape.

[dawsongirl]

I still think my doctors, parents, and grandparents are all wrong and they just don't understand what a risk obesity is.

Hmm...okay, there are a few quacks out there, but honestly, a doctor knows what's going on moreso than a teenager who hasn't even taken biology. I think you need to knock that "I'm right and they're all wrong" attitude out of your head. In this case, you are very wrong.

[dawsongirl]

I'm not starving myself. I said I was on a diet, I just wanna eat Special K (which is GOOD for you) for breakfast and that's it for the day.

I don't skip breakfast because that's what starts up your metasolism.

And that's not starvng yourself...just eating a bowl of cereal...then my 2-4 meals a day is too much then. Well hell.

[Brent88]

I had 275 calories so far.....would it hurt to go eat some rice? Or is my metabolism already too slow?

275 CALORIES? OH MY FREAKING GOD.

*falls over*

EAT!!!! SOMETHING!!! ANYTHING!!!! Not rice though... eat something unhealthy for a change. It's not gonna kill you.

[Brent88]

I'm not starving myself. I said I was on a diet, I just wanna eat Special K (which is GOOD for you) for breakfast and that's it for the day.

I don't skip breakfast because that's what starts up your metasolism.

You need to eat AT LEAST 3 times a day... eating only Special K in the morning, don't you have headaches by afternoon? I do if I skip a meal(much less meals). Good grief... this is bordering on unbelievable right now. :rolleyes:

[dawsongirl]

You need to eat AT LEAST 3 times a day... eating only Special K in the morning, don't you have headaches by afternoon? I do if I skip a meal(much less meals). Good grief... this is bordering on unbelievable right now. :rolleyes:

I get headaches too. And stomachaches. God...hunger pains are terrible.

[G-Force Glockstar]

That's why I couldn't go to school today.....because I had a headace, my throat was swollen, my stomach hurt, and I feel dizzy when I walk around.


btw I've had almost 700 calories now. Actually a little more cause of that orange juice I had......but anyway, all I have to do now is be careful tonight, tomorrow when I go to my cousins, and Sunday for lunch when we have a get together for mothers day.

[Brent88]

That's why I couldn't go to school today.....because I had a headace, my throat was swollen, my stomach hurt, and I feel dizzy when I walk around.


btw I've had almost 700 calories now. Actually a little more cause of that orange juice I had......but anyway, all I have to do now is be careful tonight, tomorrow when I go to my cousins, and Sunday for lunch when we have a get together for mothers day.

Exhibit A as to why you MUST EAT!!!

[Stuck In The '70's]

You need to eat AT LEAST 3 times a day... eating only Special K in the morning, don't you have headaches by afternoon? I do if I skip a meal(much less meals). Good grief... this is bordering on unbelievable right now. :rolleyes:
I usually eat at least 2 meals a day and a snack and I've been on a diet for a year. I've lost a lot of weight but if I ate like she is, I would get headaches too. Thats always happened to me.

[Brent88]

I usually eat at least 2 meals a day and a snack and I've been on a diet for a year. I've lost a lot of weight but if I ate like she is, I would get headaches too. Thats always happened to me.

Exactly... I can skip breakfast a lot of times(because I don't get up til 9 or 10am and I usually eat lunch before Noon), but I eat snacks during the day. A meal also is not "cereal" or "Special K". A sandwich and chips or something would be the bare minimum IMO.

[dawsongirl]

Exactly... I can skip breakfast a lot of times(because I don't get up til 9 or 10am and I usually eat lunch before Noon), but I eat snacks during the day. A meal also is not "cereal" or "Special K". A sandwich and chips or something would be the bare minimum IMO.

I don't skip breakfast per se, but I don't eat much and not for a couple hours after I wake up. A muffin bar, Nutri Grain bar...whatever. My stomach simply cannot take food so early or too much at once. But then I eat all the time after that. I hate being hungry!

[Brent88]

I don't skip breakfast per se, but I don't eat much and not for a couple hours after I wake up. A muffin bar, Nutri Grain bar...whatever. My stomach simply cannot take food so early or too much at once. But then I eat all the time after that. I hate being hungry!

:lol:

That is me. When I do eat breakfast, it's usually a few pieces of bacon or a pancake. Then once 2 or 3pm comes, I'm constantly getting something out of the kitchen. :p

[Stuck In The '70's]

I hardly ever eat breakfast. The only time I do is when I'm at a restaurant and that isn't to often. Then I really pig out. :lol:

[PZelda]

Girl, you're not obese!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are the one that does not understand the definition of the word. At your age, what you weight is normal. Now if you weighed 160, then you would be obese.
Um no, excuse me... I weigh 160 right now (I was 170 when I started) and that is NOWHERE near obese. Overweight, yes...Obese, no. There's a difference between being overweight and being obese. Overweight is when your BMI is around scores higher than what it should be (like if your BMI was a 23, you should be a 20), and you have a little meat on ya...Obese is when you start having serious health problems related to your weight....Heart problems, breathing problems, etc. and you start ballooning out. Remember that.

I realized I had a weight problem a while ago when I stepped on the scale and it said I weighed 170. I don't partake in fatty foods, but carbs were my weakness...So I did an overhaul of my diet and cut way down on the carbs (I still get 'em every day, just not the same amount I used to eat). It's been 2.5 weeks now, and I lost 10 lbs. I started working out every day too... I do 45 mins every day...Biking, pilates or toning exercises. It doesn't matter, just as long as I squeeze in SOMETHING. So far, it's worked pretty well. :D

[*MIBabe03*]

Um no, excuse me... I weigh 160 right now (I was 170 when I started) and that is NOWHERE near obese. Overweight, yes...Obese, no. There's a difference between being overweight and being obese. Overweight is when your BMI is around scores higher than what it should be (like if your BMI was a 23, you should be a 20), and you have a little meat on ya...Obese is when you start having serious health problems related to your weight....Heart problems, breathing problems, etc. and you start ballooning out. Remember that.

You're not a 13 year old. What I was saying is that at 13 if she weighed that much, then she would be obese. Hell I've been obese my whole life, and now I'm paying for it. I was diagnosed last December with Type 2 Diabetes. At my heaviest, I was 248. Now I'm 195.

[PZelda]

You're not a 13 year old. What I was saying is that at 13 if she weighed that much, then she would be obese. Hell I've been obese my whole life, and now I'm paying for it. I was diagnosed last December with Type 2 Diabetes. At my heaviest, I was 248. Now I'm 195.
Okay, I gotcha. :) You're right...Yes, if I were 160 at 13, that would be obese.

Kudos to you for the new lifestyle!

[*MIBabe03*]

Okay, I gotcha. :) You're right...Yes, if I were 160 at 13, that would be obese.

Kudos to you for the new lifestyle!


Thanks :) !

[Hollow]

You're not a 13 year old. What I was saying is that at 13 if she weighed that much, then she would be obese.
i know she's not fat, but it isn't your age that determines whether your weight is obese. sorry, it just kind of irriotates me when people do that. :lookaroun

[Brent88]

At 14, I probably weighed 115. And I wasn't really that fat. Just out of shape.

I'm 125 at 16... almost 17. I swear I'm as skinny as can be. Of course... my dad and grandpa were at this age and they ended up, shall we say, overweight, so... :(

[G-Force Glockstar]

I'm 125 at 16... almost 17. I swear I'm as skinny as can be. Of course... my dad and grandpa were at this age and they ended up, shall we say, overweight, so... :(

The doctor said when I'm 17 I'll weigh about 110-115 pounds.

Anyway, 125 for a 17 year old boy seems normal. But I don't know really because there are so many skinny boys at my school and overweight girls.

[Dutabi84]

The doctor said when I'm 17 I'll weigh about 110-115 pounds.

Anyway, 125 for a 17 year old boy seems normal. But I don't know really because there are so many skinny boys at my school and overweight girls.

You really should do some research on eating. Forget about all these bullcrap diets..eat balanced. And eat your daily recommendation! You're a growing kid, you need a lot of food.

155-160 is probably more average for a 17 year old boy, but it'll vary per height, obviously. Weight is more directly related to height, not age.

[G-Force Glockstar]

It appears to some people you just want attention by making these constant threads. People might not think that if you actually took the information and used it.

Well, I DID learn something today from this thread.......I'll start eating more sience it makes your metasolsim (sp?) not slow down.

[TheGreatPretender]

Oh. my. god. I give up. This is the THIRD thread on this and we told you the same things over and over. I just don't understand these threads at ALL.

[G-Force Glockstar]

I don't really understand it. If she is going to make the thread, why not pay attention to all of the information we have given you. Gosh.

Sorry, I knew I should have gone to the "WTF???" thread and just re read the whole thread or at least a few pages.

[spunkygirl]

You really need to quit listening to "friends" or anyone else. Listen to your doctor and parents only! I was skinny in school and had friends that said I was fat, I knew I wasn't but it does stuff to your self esteem and body image.

Seriously girl EAT SOMETHING and eating healthy is the way to go, starving yourself gets you nowhere, you seriously need to do some research on anorexia, look up stuff on actress Tracey Gold and singer Karen Carpenter(who died because of her anorexia at a very young age) You don't want to end up dead do you?

I hate to sound harsh, but you are heading down a very dangerous path if you're not already there. Even if you're not hungry, eat, your body need nourishment.

[Jonathan]

Angela summed everything up perfectly.

[Brian]

BMI can actually be misleading. I have a high BMI but I have a lot of muscle (which is heavier than fat) and I'm five foot seven.

I agree with what everyone else said. I was surpised when I first found out that if you didn't eat enough, whatever you ate would turn into fat regardless of what it was.

Eating disorders can lead to death. I'm sure you've heard of what happened to Karen Carpenter, if not you can find out for yourself with a few minutes of research. Eating disorders such as anorexia nerviousa can be too big a strain for the heart and it can lead it to failure.

But I guess my comments are futile since you're not listening to everybody. :)

[Pus$y Galore]

Well, I DID learn something today from this thread.......I'll start eating more sience it makes your metasolsim (sp?) not slow down.


You were told that and we discussed it in depth 2 months ago.

Are we going to have to go through this every few weeks?

[G-Force Glockstar]

I was surpised when I first found out that if you didn't eat enough, whatever you ate would turn into fat regardless of what it was.

Yeah, that stinks. But sometimes I skip lunch because there's abolutley (sp?) NOTHING healthy at my school......they have salad and yougert but it's extremely high in calories and fat calories.

Anyway, when I was in elementary school, I ate so much I had two lunches every day!! I'm surprised I'm not 150 pounds now.......my parents said I was a growing kid, so I didn't gain that much.

[G-Force Glockstar]

You were told that and we discussed it in depth 2 months ago.

Are we going to have to go through this every few weeks?

I really don't know what to say.....all I know is that if I need help again I'll have to re read one of these threads.

[spunkygirl]

You seem to be ignoring everyone in this thread that is trying to help you, go back and reread all the good advice that was given here and take it seriously PLEASE!

Also do some research on Anorexia Nervosa, and the things it can do to your body. You are too young to die from an eating disorder, don't do that to your body

[Kazza]

How can salad and yogurt be fatenning; that's where you make your own choices. If the salad has chicken, only eat half of the amount, if it has dressing try to get it on the side ect and yogurt is NOT fattening.

[TheGreatPretender]

Sorry, I knew I should have gone to the "WTF???" thread and just re read the whole thread or at least a few pages.


Listen just stop with these crazy negative rants just stop. Let me tell you something you have NO idea what it is like to be overweight. I'm about 5'4 and 140 (after going on a diet which basically meant giving up late night binges on anything that was edible and starting excersizing for 30 min a day) and I still have belly fat, love handles, back fat, humogonus thighs etc etc etc (not to gross you out or anything) but you know what? That doesn't matter to me anymore because- not to sound corny here- but it doesn't matter how you look or what is on the outside or how skinny you are.

If you take care of yourself PROPERLY i might add then you will be fine. Trust me I know EXACTLY where you are coming from. I remember sixth grade was full of stick like girls 5'0 and 80 pounds (I didn't realize how shrimpy and skeletal they REALLy were then) and I was probably the only girl there who weighed over 100 pounds. And I put myself down EVERY single day because of that. I would starve myself during the week and practically kill myself excersising and think pigging out to the point of me moaning in pain on the floor every once in a while was ok. So that threw off my metabolism completely. So I failed at my so called "diet" and that depressed me and I turned to eating everything in sight and being MORE depressed until I was acutally overweight and living and unhealthy lifestyle.I'm lucky that I got a wake up call and finally starting changing my ways (more like FORCING) after having back problems. I still have a long way to go

Anyways...I don't want to bore you more. I just think your problem is self esteem. And trust me mine has hit an all time low TONS of times. And I probably understand how you feel getting teased constantly by your sisters can have an effect on your confidence. And no matter how many times people are gonna tell you that you are'nt fat at all YOU are gonna think you are fat. You're stuck in this rut until YOU finally get pulled out of it. But trust me it is going to get better ...it is with time. You're not alone in feeling this way at 13. But why don't you just try either talking to a counsler OR just take a look at yourself in the mirror and list all the things that you like about yourself. Trust me although you may be "fat" (according to your POV of course) you have alot of good qualities I'm sure of it. And another thing...this may take some time too but LEARN to stand up to your sisters already. This seems to be the whole cause of this. Trust me standing up to the person that makes your life hell will make you feel SOOOO much better. Just roll your eyes, laugh at them or say "Awwwww how cute! My wittle bitty sisters giving me dieting advice." (or something like that you choose :lol: )

Sorry for the long post. I'm just putting my two cence in - take it or leave it. But whether you listen or not just please remember that things WILL get better. Just hang in there :wave:

[Jonathan]

Great post.

[dawsongirl]

Yeah, that stinks. But sometimes I skip lunch because there's abolutley (sp?) NOTHING healthy at my school......they have salad and yougert but it's extremely high in calories and fat calories.

Who told you that?? The only thing that makes an average lettuce salad fattening is the dressing. So you don't use high calorie dressing. And yogert is all healthy. Plus they say that getting plenty of dairy can actually help you lose weight.

[swedeace]

CravinforCarrie: Even magazines make mention of healthy foods such as salads, fruits, veggies, dairy, etc, so it's ludicrous to believe in "high and fat calories" in the dairy, etc. It's shown as health food in the food pyramid. Please, we are ALL helping you. If we didn't care, NO ONE would be helping you out. Do not do this to yourself... We want to see you healthy, ok?

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

i know she's not fat, but it isn't your age that determines whether your weight is obese. sorry, it just kind of irriotates me when people do that. :lookaroun
A 20 year old weight 160 pounds is a loooot different than a 13 year old weighing 160 pounds. I mean, yes height and such do take account, but a 13 year old girl weight 160 pounds is overweight. I mean, when I was in 5th grade I weight 107 pounds and was pretty chunky. I got the teasings and such, ya know? If I weighed 107 pounds now Id be pretty thin. Sure Ive grown in height by some, but only a few inches. Im only 5'1.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

Yeah, that stinks. But sometimes I skip lunch because there's abolutley (sp?) NOTHING healthy at my school......they have salad and yougert but it's extremely high in calories and fat calories.

Anyway, when I was in elementary school, I ate so much I had two lunches every day!! I'm surprised I'm not 150 pounds now.......my parents said I was a growing kid, so I didn't gain that much.
Then skip the salad dressing and keep out the 'extras' such as cheese, croutons and bacon bits. As for yogurt, yogurt is good for you. Like Cathy said, its been proven that getting enough calcium helps you lose more weight. You do need some fat. And if you dont like what they serve you, then bag it.

[MsOrange]

BOO

[Pus$y Galore]

I really don't know what to say.....all I know is that if I need help again I'll have to re read one of these threads.


Well you DO still need help obviously by just posting another thread again about basically the same thing. That, or you are just wanting more attention which is what I'm beginning to think. :wallbang

Anyway, yogurt and salad is not going to hurt you at all for lunch. You are STILL growing - you have 5 more years of it ahead of you so you're not going to gain weight by that. Maybe if you were still eating "two lunches" (which actually probably was more like a lunch and a couple of small snacks - which is what Weight Watchers recommends) - but not a lunch of yogurt and a salad - that's actually quite good for you.

[The Modfather]

Well you DO still need help obviously by just posting another thread again about basically the same thing. That, or you are just wanting more attention which is what I'm beginning to think. :wallbang:

I'm getting so sick of these ****ty threads. Why don't you do us all a favor and listen to one post here and stop making threads about it? Or maybe we should start a new section just for you to make repeat threads.

[Pus$y Galore]

I'm getting so sick of these ****ty threads. Why don't you do us all a favor and listen to one post here and stop making threads about it? Or maybe we should start a new section just for you to make repeat threads.


AMEN!!

And she's been told by enough of us that it ISN'T a weight problem that the repeated posts are actually getting slightly insulting to people who truly do have weight issues to deal with. I know, because that's what my friends used to tell me when I would go on and on about how big I was.....meanwhile, I was wearing size 5 clothes at the time. My friends had a point. I was such an idiot - it's a wonder I didn't alienate them all.

[dawsongirl]

I wish I had a salad right now. That sounds good. Ranch dressing, bacon, cheese, egg slices, croutons. Yum.

I haven't even eaten breakfast yet! :lol:

[Pus$y Galore]

I wish I had a salad right now. That sounds good. Ranch dressing, bacon, cheese, egg slices, croutons. Yum.

I haven't even eaten breakfast yet! :lol:


That sounds good!

I've been on this pancakes with fresh fruit kick for breakfast lately. I make the batter a little thin so they're more like crepes. Then fresh, super ripe assorted fruit (grapes, blueberries, strawberries, canteloupe, honeydew melon and pineapple). MAN is it good! Really sets off the pancakes! That's all I've eaten so far today.

[dawsongirl]

That sounds good!

I've been on this pancakes with fresh fruit kick for breakfast lately. I make the batter a little thin so they're more like crepes. Then fresh, super ripe assorted fruit (grapes, blueberries, strawberries, canteloupe, honeydew melon and pineapple). MAN is it good! Really sets off the pancakes! That's all I've eaten so far today.
It's been so long since I've eaten a real pancake. Just those frozen ones I stick in the toaster.

[Hollow]

I'm getting so sick of these ****ty threads. Why don't you do us all a favor and listen to one post here and stop making threads about it? Or maybe we should start a new section just for you to make repeat threads.
THANK YOU. first she whines about her babysitter making her EAT A SINGLE PIECE OF PIZZA and is given pages and pages and pages of advice. the next thing we know she's whining about her mom making her eat a whopping 1200 calories a day. even if you eat that much a day, you're going to STARVE. after the number of times she's been told that not eating enough is dangerous, unhealthy and fatal, she just seems to want to go in that direction.

Stop making these threads if you aren't going to listen to us. it's a huge waste of space and time. you don't know nearly as much as you think you do about dieting. you keep insisting that the myths are true, not the facts; and you think you know more about health and dieting than the experts do. if you're going to stubbornly stick to those untrue beliefs, stop asking for advice. it's going to hurt you.

[Belair]

Maybe you should have my Mum...
She used to tell when I was younger that if I was ever getting fat,she'd have me on a bread and water diet.

[Pus$y Galore]

THANK YOU. first she whines about her babysitter making her EAT A SINGLE PIECE OF PIZZA and is given pages and pages and pages of advice. the next thing we know she's whining about her mom making her eat a whopping 1200 calories a day. even if you eat that much a day, you're going to STARVE. after the number of times she's been told that not eating enough is dangerous, unhealthy and fatal, she just seems to want to go in that direction.

Stop making these threads if you aren't going to listen to us. it's a huge waste of space and time. you don't know nearly as much as you think you do about dieting. you keep insisting that the myths are true, not the facts; and you think you know more about health and dieting than the experts do. if you're going to stubbornly stick to those untrue beliefs, stop asking for advice. it's going to hurt you.

:yeahthat :clap

[dawsongirl]

I couldn't have said this better myself. She continually complains. I think that is what it's all about. Whine and complain. It's becoming very constant.

www.livejournal.com (http://www.livejournal.com)

excellent place to bitch about the same thing over and over again. Ask anyone on my friends list. :lol:

[Kay Scarpetta]

The key to losing weight (not that you need to in the first place!) but if you're going to lose weight, it's a combination of eating healthy and EXERCISE. Even walking on the treadmil or around your neighborhood!

Good greif, I eat like a cow (when I have an appetite- my meds make me lose it sometimes) and I stay in shape by jogging, taking Ballet classes, and eating lots of fruits, veggies, and multi-grain foods.

[Penny Lane]

I have learned that when most people ask for advice they are really asking for people to agree with them.
Most advice is ignored. " And that's the way it is" :rolleyes: ...............

[Stuck In The '70's]

All you have to do is ask youself " how can I be right and everybody else be wrong?" If you are honest with yourself, you will take everybody's advice. They do know a lot more about this then you do.

[EmoJoe]

Salad and Rice isnt going to kill you. Your not even fat, i saw your pic that you posted and your just the right weight.

[barwars]

99 pounds?! You fat ****.



Anyways, you need some serious psychological help.

[G-Force Glockstar]

99 pounds?! You fat ****.


I'm guessing you're being sarcastic?


Anyway, I have no right to talk in his thread anymore. But I just wanna say sorry.....instead of reading the "WTF????" thread over, I decided to make another one of these freaking threads :rolleyes:

Wow, I screwed up!

[EmoJoe]

No, I think he was being serious. :rolleyes:

I think we are all sick of the countless threads that turn into nothing.
He meant that she wasnt fat.

[Michael [hXc]]

He meant that she wasnt fat.

GoldenFanatic was also being sarcastic. :rolleyes:

[Pus$y Galore]

GoldenFanatic was also being sarcastic. :rolleyes:


Yeah - the rolly eyes are indicative of that. That's why I find it does help to use the smileys when we are being sarcastic so that people know that.

I've noticed some members seem to get themselves into hot water here when they make a sarcastic, one line remark but don't put a smiley to let you know. Won't mention any names, but I think we know who they are!! ;) :lol:

99 lbs is fat if you're a poodle.

[Hollow]

must there be such hostility over misunderstandings? i was confused myself over who was being sarcastic and who wasn't.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Wow my obsessions always tick people off.

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Wow my obsessions always tick people off.I agree, and I would be one of that "someone."

Instead of starting a new thread, you should've read back the older thread. After all, you DID say that you weren't going to make another thread about this anymore, didn't you????? Have you forgotten? Or must I have to dig up a sentence to quote you on? :rolleyes:

Ahhh... or are you doing this for attention? You're getting "high" off these posts aren't you? You LIKE arguing with other people in regards to your eating, don't you?? Does it make you feel special? Unique? Makes a good conversation, doesn't it? Guess what? You can't fool ME... because I know. I'm not that much older than you are, I hope you know.. I know all your little tricks. ;)

You already know the facts. You are only going to become more obsessed if you don't cut it out and go get yourself some damn help, because that is what you NEED. Sure, you may not think so, but HA!!!!!!... wait till it gets worse... you'll be fuccking sorry. You're in denial, girl. To think that 1200 cals a day is too much only shows your IGNORANCE. YOU are being ridiculous. Not your mother. :rolleyes:

Trust me, I know.

:mad:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

I'm guessing you're being sarcastic?


Ah HA!! Tell me something, Nik...why would you think he were being sarcastic, unless you thought he wasn't telling the truth? :rolleyes:

If you truly believed that 99 made you a fat biitch, then you would've agreed with him. :snob:

And for the record, I never called you a fat biitch, so don't try to put any words into my mouth.

Oh, and hi, Jonathan. :wave:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Oh, and for the record, I know someone who has been in denial, just like YOU, for a long time...and she had to be FORCED, INPATIENT (look it up, if you don't know what it means), to an ED clinic. That sounds fun, ay?? :rolleyes:

And you're sooooooo convinced that your parents are not going to know. You think it's your own little secret, don't you? You think you have everything under control. But guess what??? WAKE UP and welcome to the REAL world. YOU DON'T!!!!!!! Sooner or later, they WILL know. You're gonna faint and land yourself in a hospital. THEN what??? You're gonna have a LOT of explaining to do, missy. :snob:

I have this other friend, who has been anorexic for 10 years. She's 78 lbs and 5'6." How pretty do you think she looks?? How healthy do you think she is?? How LONG do you think she has until her parents are going to bury their own child???? Oh, I know what you're thinking. "I will NEVER go THAT far." Yeah.... PSH... that's what YOU think!!!!!

For the record, ALL of the friends which I speak of are REAL people. I am not making up a story for YOUR sake. I don't HAVE to make up a story for your sake. And if you think this can't happen to YOU? Well.... you're being ridiculous. :p

And I expect a response from you on this thread, else, I'll be totally miffed. :snob:

[MsOrange]

Wow my ignorance always tick people off.
i went ahead and corrected that for you

[Hollow]

Wow my obsessions always tick people off.
DO YOU EVER EVEN READ WHAT WE TELL YOU?

[Czas na Zywiec]

DO YOU EVER EVEN READ WHAT WE TELL YOU?

I'm going to take a stab at it and say no.

[Pus$y Galore]

I'm going to take a stab at it and say no.


Geez, you're really going out on a limb there!! ;) :lol:

[G-Force Glockstar]

Oh, and for the record, I know someone who has been in denial, just like YOU, for a long time...and she had to be FORCED, INPATIENT (look it up, if you don't know what it means), to an ED clinic. That sounds fun, ay?? :rolleyes:

And you're sooooooo convinced that your parents are not going to know. You think it's your own little secret, don't you? You think you have everything under control. But guess what??? WAKE UP and welcome to the REAL world. YOU DON'T!!!!!!! Sooner or later, they WILL know. You're gonna faint and land yourself in a hospital. THEN what??? You're gonna have a LOT of explaining to do, missy. :snob:

I have this other friend, who has been anorexic for 10 years. She's 78 lbs and 5'6." How pretty do you think she looks?? How healthy do you think she is?? How LONG do you think she has until her parents are going to bury their own child???? Oh, I know what you're thinking. "I will NEVER go THAT far." Yeah.... PSH... that's what YOU think!!!!!

For the record, ALL of the friends which I speak of are REAL people. I am not making up a story for YOUR sake. I don't HAVE to make up a story for your sake. And if you think this can't happen to YOU? Well.... you're being ridiculous. :p

And I expect a response from you on this thread, else, I'll be totally miffed. :snob:


I am speechless. I was a b*tch for creating this thread.

[G-Force Glockstar]

i went ahead and corrected that for you

Thanks, I was igorant for creating this thread!

[G-Force Glockstar]

DO YOU EVER EVEN READ WHAT WE TELL YOU?

Oh, I read all right. I just......I guess I just sometimes feel like I wanna do it my own way, but sometimes I ask for advice. Sorry if it makes no sense.

[EmoJoe]

GoldenFanatic was also being sarcastic. :rolleyes:
Geez, sorry for breathing

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Oh, I read all right.Nik, I have known you to not read HALF of the things we tell you. I still remember the time when I posted a link for you THREE times, as I did with my age..... you STILL had no idea what I was talking about. :rolleyes: That tells me a LOT. :snob:

And you can't answer my questions, ayy??? "Speechless." Ha! Do you know WHY you are speechless??? 'Cause we are RIGHT!! And you KNOW it!!! No matter how much you argue, you will not win this. Will you not admit that you are in total denial???? :rolleyes:

And you say you are asking for advice. WHATTTTTT???? WHAT advice?? It seems to me this post was more like rant, than anything. It is also evident that you aren't TRULY seeking advice if you will not follow through and want to continue doing things "your own way." :rolleyes: So.... is this for attention???? Can't answer THAT either, huh? I bet you just LOVE coming back here and seeing your thread grow... seeing more replies. I bet you check back pretty frequently to see if anyone has responded, too, huh?? :rolleyes:

So yeah, tell me, WHAT you are asking, exactly? Are you asking for us to SUPPORT you in this?? You have GOT to be kidding me. :rolleyes: You expect to say, "hey, yeah, your mom IS ridiculous????" Wake up and smell the coffee, girl. ADVICE???... PSHHHH!!! You SUUUUURE could've had ME fooled. :rolleyes: Plus, you can easily look these things up on your OWN, too, you know??? (Now... WHERE have you heard THIS advice before???) Ever heard of research??? And you've told me you've done a lot of "reading," HA! R-righttttt. Like... I'm convinced?????? Heck, I must be crazy if I were! :crazy:

And for the record, that PM you sent me a month ago, apologizing. No, I do NOT accept your apology. :mad: I think it's safe to say that mostly everyone here who has known me for some time knows that I am a VERY nice person. (I normally dont brag like this, btw... but I am trying to make a point, so please forgive me, everyone. ;)) Heck, I can be your BEST friend. BUT, if you're gonna continue and INSIST on continuing to tell me lies, then... FORGET IT! I don't need a friendship based on lies. :wave:

Plus, who the hell wants to be friends with a soon-to-be anorexic, anyway? So that I can sob my heart out when you're dead and buried??? NO THANKS. Save me the grief. I don't need it.

And by the way, you WILL lose your friends. Don't think for a minute that your social life will become better if you are "thinner" and COUGH "prettier" COUGH..... with bones sticking out all over your body... facial hair.....excessive arm/leg hair......brittle bones/teeth/nails... no boobs.... no butt.... no curves..... you'll be pale as daylight! You'll be a social outcast. So don't you think you will be any better off. You will be MISERABLE. And you will be A L O N E.... ALONE... and alone. ;) Thin does NOT equal happiness. GET REAL. Grow up, and be the intelligent person that you are capable of being. Don't let this get worse, LISTEN!!!!!!!!

BTW, please don't tell me your're "speechless" again. Surely you have much more to say than "I'm speechless" to this lengthy post? :p

BTW, let me share with you... the inner-feelings of someone with an eating disorder. Do you want to know how I feel now??? Let me show you...

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Pretty nice showcase I've got here, huh? Want to join me? Maybe we can grief and ruin our lives together? :rolleyes: Oh, c'mon gimme a break!

[EmoJoe]

He was just telling you that I had enough sense to know what he meant. It doesn't take a genius.
First of all, the roll eyes smilie defintiley wasnt nessacary in his post, and second of all, its hard to tell if someone is being sarcastic online. In real life, you can tell by the tone of voice, online you cant.

Someone should lock this thread. Its a mess

[EmoJoe]

Someone can't handle the pressure of a debate. Calm down. As some of us have stated, the smilie is basically indicative of "sarcasm."
The "pressure of a debate?" What the heck?

I was just saying it wasnt nessacary to jump on me for not reliazing sarcasm.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Nik, I have known you to not read HALF of the things we tell you. I still remember the time when I posted a link for you THREE times, as I did with my age..... you STILL had no idea what I was talking about. :rolleyes: That tells me a LOT. :snob:

And you can't answer my questions, ayy??? "Speechless." Ha! Do you know WHY you are speechless??? 'Cause we are RIGHT!! And you KNOW it!!! No matter how much you argue, you will not win this. Will you not admit that you are in total denial???? :rolleyes:

And you say you are asking for advice. WHATTTTTT???? WHAT advice?? It seems to me this post was more like rant, than anything. It is also evident that you aren't TRULY seeking advice if you will not follow through and want to continue doing things "your own way." :rolleyes: So.... is this for attention???? Can't answer THAT either, huh? I bet you just LOVE coming back here and seeing your thread grow... seeing more replies. I bet you check back pretty frequently to see if anyone has responded, too, huh?? :rolleyes:

So yeah, tell me, WHAT you are asking, exactly? Are you asking for us to SUPPORT you in this?? You have GOT to be kidding me. :rolleyes: You expect to say, "hey, yeah, your mom IS ridiculous????" Wake up and smell the coffee, girl. ADVICE???... PSHHHH!!! You SUUUUURE could've had ME fooled. :rolleyes: Plus, you can easily look these things up on your OWN, too, you know??? (Now... WHERE have you heard THIS advice before???) Ever heard of research??? And you've told me you've done a lot of "reading," HA! R-righttttt. Like... I'm convinced?????? Heck, I must be crazy if I were! :crazy:

And for the record, that PM you sent me a month ago, apologizing. No, I do NOT accept your apology. :mad: I think it's safe to say that mostly everyone here who has known me for some time knows that I am a VERY nice person. (I normally dont brag like this, btw... but I am trying to make a point, so please forgive me, everyone. ;)) Heck, I can be your BEST friend. BUT, if you're gonna continue and INSIST on continuing to tell me lies, then... FORGET IT! I don't need a friendship based on lies. :wave:

Plus, who the hell wants to be friends with a soon-to-be anorexic, anyway? So that I can sob my heart out when you're dead and buried??? NO THANKS. Save me the grief. I don't need it.

And by the way, you WILL lose your friends. Don't think for a minute that your social life will become better if you are "thinner" and COUGH "prettier" COUGH..... with bones sticking out all over your body... facial hair.....excessive arm/leg hair......brittle bones/teeth/nails... no boobs.... no butt.... no curves..... you'll be pale as daylight! You'll be a social outcast. So don't you think you will be any better off. You will be MISERABLE. And you will be A L O N E.... ALONE... and alone. ;) Thin does NOT equal happiness. GET REAL. Grow up, and be the intelligent person that you are capable of being. Don't let this get worse, LISTEN!!!!!!!!

BTW, please don't tell me your're "speechless" again. Surely you have much more to say than "I'm speechless" to this lengthy post? :p

BTW, let me share with you... the inner-feelings of someone with an eating disorder. Do you want to know how I feel now??? Let me show you...

Wow that tells me alot. I did hear before too that you could lose all of your friends. And I guess I can see why.

Oh lord I never thought I'd say this.....but I guess you're all right......starving yourself and throwing up is not the real answer. And if I do decide to become stupid and do that, I should frickin keep it to myself.

Well, I defintly don't expect all of you to forgive me overnight, but really I am sorry. I wish I would have realized this earlier.

[MsOrange]

Wow that tells me alot. I did hear before too that you could lose all of your friends. And I guess I can see why.

Oh lord I never thought I'd say this.....but I guess you're all right......starving yourself and throwing up is not the real answer. And if I do decide to become stupid and do that, I should frickin keep it to myself.

Well, I defintly don't expect all of you to forgive me overnight, but really I am sorry. I wish I would have realized this earlier.
i find it very very very hard to believe you after the whole 'WTF?????????' thread and then this

[G-Force Glockstar]

i find it very very very hard to believe you after the whole 'WTF?????????' thread and then this

It's like I'm not human or something. I think something and then something different the next day or soemthing.

[Pus$y Galore]

i find it very very very hard to believe you after the whole 'WTF?????????' thread and then this


Only time will tell eh? :rolleyes:

[barwars]

THIS THREAD BLOWS

[Czas na Zywiec]

It's like I'm not human or something. I think something and then something different the next day or soemthing.

Something? Something!!

[Hollow]

Something? Something!!
something. something something :rolleyes: something :lol: :wave: something! :kiss: :something:

[MsOrange]

Only time will tell eh? :rolleyes:
i ain't holdin my breath over nothin

[Czas na Zywiec]

something. something something :rolleyes: something :lol: :wave: something! :kiss: :something:

:grineyes: Some...thing?

[Brent88]

:rofl:

:brent

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Wow that tells me alot. I did hear before too that you could lose all of your friends. And I guess I can see why.

Oh lord I never thought I'd say this.....but I guess you're all right......starving yourself and throwing up is not the real answer. And if I do decide to become stupid and do that, I should frickin keep it to myself.

Well, I defintly don't expect all of you to forgive me overnight, but really I am sorry. I wish I would have realized this earlier.Um.. rrrrr-right... You think it's THAT easy, huh?? You know what? Hate to tell you this, but this ain't going away overnight. You're gonna continue to have this dangerous ED (eating disorder)-mindset until you get yourself some damn counseling! Until YOU take responsible actions.

And I hope you aren't being sly with us, like the last DOZEN attempts in trying to mislead us. :rolleyes: I, for one, am not the least convinced, tho. I'll be blunt and be the first to say that I think the only reason you are "agreeing" with us is that you don't feel like arguing anymore. :p Am I warm? ;)

And don't tell us "you JUST realized" that you could lose your friends, because you know what?? That's BULL. We've told you that NUMEROUS of times before [unless you didn't read what we wrote??]. I've shared my story with you before, and so has Cathie. So don't play "dumb." It's just another way of getting attention. (And for the record, you STILL didn't answer my question. :p Are you, or are you NOT doing this for attention??) To illustrate: she (Cathie) mentioned how she had lost HER friends because she kept offending people who WERE obese whilst she was wearing size 5 jeans. And HEY!! How come I rememeber this and YOU dont?? :rolleyes: And how many damn times have I told you that you would miserable? Oh c'mon, stop pretending like it's the first time you've "realized" this or "something." :lol:

Fess up, you just want us all to stop getting on your case, don't yah? Have you ran out of excuses?? Tired of arguing maybe? Tired of being attacked? Are you thinking that if you "agreed" to all we said (or CLAIM to agree), that suddenly we will all be on YOUR side?? Well, you're right about ONE thing... this aint gonna happen overnight, haha. You've got to PROVE it to us. And the first step would be to talk to an adult, and not just ANY adult, but BOTH your parents AND your counselor at school. No go? Then... I'm not convinced. :p

Oh, and don't try to make up something about "seeing a counselor" to seek our approval. That aint gonna work either. :p (I told yah I know all the tricks. ;)) Plus, this isn't about US, it's about YOU. YOU do this for yourself. Be truth to YOURSELF. Don't feed us all with lies when we are only trying to help. Meanwhile, get yourself a journal. :rolleyes:

Heck, we've got all night. :p (At least I do anyway, :lol: )

"something..something...something..." Are you speechless again? :talk:

[Hollow]

:grineyes: Some...thing?
something...something! ;)

[Hollow]

starving yourself and throwing up is not the real answer. And if I do decide to become stupid and do that, I should frickin keep it to myself.
No, you should not frickin keep it to yourself. that comment REALLY shows how little you're comprehending out of the total 300 or so posts in this and the "WTF?????" thread. haven't you said you're going to stop whining about people making you EAT? People caring about you by trying to keep you alive and healthy - now that's what i call ridiculous! those jerks can go die; that's what they should get for trying to keep you from ruining your life, huh? :rolleyes:

[spunkygirl]

I agree with Sara that is truly sad, people here try to help you but you won't even listen and take their advice to heart. You really must want to die young ohno:

And not even a thanks for the advice everyone ohno:

Where's this WTF??? thread I keep reading about?

[Warm & Fuzzy]

that comment REALLY shows how little you're comprehending out of the total 300 or so posts in this and the "WTF?????" thread. I agree. :nod:

[Czas na Zywiec]

something...something! ;)

http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/attachment.php?attachmentid=89259&stc=1

[Pus$y Galore]

http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/attachment.php?attachmentid=89259&stc=1


:rofl: :lol:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/attachment.php?attachmentid=89259&stc=1Who's that? :crazy:

[Pus$y Galore]

I agree with Sara that is truly sad, people here try to help you but you won't even listen and take their advice to heart. You really must want to die young ohno:

And not even a thanks for the advice everyone ohno:

Where's this WTF??? thread I keep reading about?

I think it was in March or early April. It's entitled "WTF" and started by CravinForCarrie. I think Janice ended up moving it to Random Chit Chat because it went on forever! Quench and I tried our best for DAYS with her then, not to mention everyone else you've heard from here. You'll see what we mean. Here's a link:
http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=134187

[dawsongirl]

BTW, let me share with you... the inner-feelings of someone with an eating disorder. Do you want to know how I feel now??? Let me show you...

Also the inner feelings of someone with depression. Gee...double whammy...that might be fun, huh?

[Pus$y Galore]

Who's that? :crazy:


Jan Brady!!! "Marica - Marcia - Maarcia"! :lol:

[dawsongirl]

:grineyes: Some...thing?

:woohoo:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Jan Brady!!! "Marica - Marcia - Maarcia"! :lol:Are you serious????? That doesnt look like her. :lol: She looks... older LOL!! :blush:

OUCH! My nose!!! :crazy:

[dawsongirl]

Are you serious????? That doesnt look like her. :lol: She looks... older LOL!! :blush:

OUCH! My nose!!! :crazy:
It was the Jan from the movie.

[Warm & Fuzzy]

It was the Jan from the movie.Oh... so it's the "fake" Jan? :o

[dawsongirl]

Oh... so it's the "fake" Jan? :o
:nod:

[Pus$y Galore]

They did a respectable job though! Both Jan and Marcia! There were times I'd forget that it wasn't the real Marica (now married to Ben Stiller!!!) :lol:

It was the ONE thing I actually liked Shelly Long in!

[Warm & Fuzzy]

:nod:Ohhhhh no wonder. heh. :o

[G-Force Glockstar]

My consuler at school is out for the rest of this year cause she just had a baby, so I can't talk to her. My parents don't really want to get me a consuler cause they're just SICK and TIRED of hearing me talk about weight all the time, and they think it might not help and it'll "be a waste of money". It may be true, cause sometimes I'm hard to give advice to (you know what I mean?)

[Warm & Fuzzy]

My consuler at school is out for the rest of this year cause she just had a baby, so I can't talk to her. My parents don't really want to get me a consuler cause they're just SICK and TIRED of hearing me talk about weight all the time, and they think it might not help and it'll "be a waste of money". It may be true, cause sometimes I'm hard to give advice to (you know what I mean?)STILLLLLLLL haven't answered all my questions, huh?? They're not rhetorical, if that's what you're thinking. ;) Have you not any more comments on my comments on those err..something's above...or something? HAHA!!! Or did you decide not to read THIS time, as well? Is this a little too much for you? Can't take the truth? Can't fend for yourself?? I'd say so. :nod: Well, then GOOD LUCK in the future 'cause you're gonna have WAY more shiit to put up with than you do here. :rolleyes:

Oh, and if you're REALLY serious about this, and you are DETERMINED, you WILL find a way. I reckon not EVERYONE in your school are pregnant and has left school, AT AT ONCE?? :eek: I mean, SURELY you didn't think I meant you were LIMITED to your parents and the school counselor, did you?? :rolleyes: Don't be silly!!

C'mon, I know you have a grandmother you can talk to, and other adults in your life. SAVE the excuses. They don't work. Stop wasting our time. Rather than sit here and make up excuses, why don't you do us ALL favor and get to action? That is... IF you are serious about this. :nonono:

[dawsongirl]

They did a respectable job though! Both Jan and Marcia! There were times I'd forget that it wasn't the real Marica (now married to Ben Stiller!!!) :lol:

It was the ONE thing I actually liked Shelly Long in!

The second movie was baaaaaad though. :lol:

[Pus$y Galore]

The second movie was baaaaaad though. :lol:


Yeah, that one was a disappointment! :lol:

[EmoJoe]

I agree with Sara that is truly sad, people here try to help you but you won't even listen and take their advice to heart. You really must want to die young ohno:

And not even a thanks for the advice everyone ohno:

Where's this WTF??? thread I keep reading about?
Random board.

[EmoJoe]

I cant believe this thread is actually still going on :eek:

[Hollow]

I think it was in March or early April. It's entitled "WTF" and started by CravinForCarrie. I think Janice ended up moving it to Random Chit Chat because it went on forever! Quench and I tried our best for DAYS with her then, not to mention everyone else you've heard from here. You'll see what we mean. Here's a link:
http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=134187
Even before that, people were making attempts in her "Eating disorder stuff" (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=133651) thread to drill it into her head that she has to eat. she didn't pay any damn attention there either. countless people used the words "anorexia" and "bulimia" spelled correctly, and even after jenny directly pointed it out to her that she was spelling them wrong, she kept saying "anorexious" and "belimia". :rolleyes:

Her original complaint in the WTF thread truly amazed me. reason being self-explanatory; though the fact that it was whiny as f-ck and showed plenty of signs of being a spoiled brat got me more than her saying it after all she'd just been told. and then this thread... :rolleyes: so far you've got yourself an accumulated total of 696 replies in all three threads. You've gotten meaningful advice and been told hundreds, literally H U N D R E D S of times why you need to eat and not to go in the direction you apparently want to go. At the end of WTF, after jenny and tripperfan had gone insane lengths to try to help you and stop you from ruining your life, you come back, STILL whining and complaining you don't weigh 4 lbs and that your parents are so stupid and mean for making you eat. "This is just the beginning," i quote. yeah, well if you want to begin to destroy your life so much because of what two stupid children say, go ahead. it'll be the END of people going out of their ways for the sake of your life if you're just going to make them waste their time. almost 1000 replies.. congratulations. :rolleyes:

"I'm such a bitch for starting this thread and i'll listen to what you guys say now" - how many times have we heard that anyway? do you just try to agree with us so we'll get us off your back? it was you who got us on your back in the first place. to put it frankly, if you listened to just one post in these threads, you would have shut up about your parents being so 'mean' a long time ago. Let alone you would be WANTING to eat. But apparently we, the doctors, health experts, your grandparents and everyone else who knows that starving isn't ever the answer are all wrong, and YOU'RE the only one who's right.

:rolleyes:

[dawsongirl]

I cant believe this thread is actually still going on :eek:

Nothing should actually shock you on this board. :)

[Pus$y Galore]

Even before that, people were making attempts in her "Eating disorder stuff" (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=133651) thread to drill it into her head that she has to eat. she didn't pay any damn attention there either. countless people used the words "anorexia" and "bulimia" spelled correctly, and even after jenny directly pointed it out to her that she was spelling them wrong, she kept saying "anorexious" and "belimia". :rolleyes:

Her original complaint in the WTF thread truly amazed me. reason being self-explanatory; though the fact that it was whiny as f-ck and showed plenty of signs of being a spoiled brat got me more than her saying it after all she'd just been told. and then this thread... :rolleyes: so far you've got yourself an accumulated total of 696 replies in all three threads. You've gotten meaningful advice and been told hundreds, literally H U N D R E D S of times why you need to eat and not to go in the direction you apparently want to go. At the end of WTF, after jenny and tripperfan had gone insane lengths to try to help you and stop you from ruining your life, you come back, STILL whining and complaining you don't weigh 4 lbs and that your parents are so stupid and mean for making you eat. "This is just the beginning," i quote. yeah, well if you want to begin to destroy your life so much because of what two stupid children say, go ahead. it'll be the END of people going out of their ways for the sake of your life if you're just going to make them waste their time. almost 1000 replies.. congratulations. :rolleyes:

"I'm such a bitch for starting this thread and i'll listen to what you guys say now" - how many times have we heard that anyway? do you just try to agree with us so we'll get us off your back? it was you who got us on your back in the first place. to put it frankly, if you listened to just one post in these threads, you would have shut up about your parents being so 'mean' a long time ago. Let alone you would be WANTING to eat. But apparently we, the doctors, health experts, your grandparents and everyone else who knows that starving isn't ever the answer are all wrong, and YOU'RE the only one who's right.

:rolleyes:

I wondered because when I saw the WTF thread, I was just back to SO after an absence so I didn't know it had been addressed before that. I wondered why so many people were making cracks and here I was taking it VERY seriously. Hell - I was genuinely upset about it for a week!! Nik even PM'd me and we discussed in even further detail off board and she absolutely promised me she'd stop the bullsh%t and had learned her lesson.
So you can imagine how I felt when I saw this one get started and the same crap all over again. I am now convinced she doesn't want help one bit - it's the attention - if anything, I've been thinking she should change her avatar to Cravin'ForAttention rather than CravingForCarrie! That's all I can see.
Hell, if I had this sort of outlet for my problems when I was her age, I would have appreciated it and taken the advice to heart. Would have saved 20 years of hell. :mad:

Thanks Sarah - you are definitely "Archive Central" here! ;)

[James"Thunder"Early]

I didn't post in the other threads, but I read them. people gave you advice and you didn't seem to listen. you start these threads and don't want to listen to anyone all you want to do is complain. you are trying to find someone to agree with you and it's no one here will. you shouldn't keep rehashing this issue over and over when you will get the same answers from people. it's to the point that no one wants to hear it and it needs to stop.

[dlemond]

So you can imagine how I felt when I saw this one get started and the same crap all over again. I am now convinced she doesn't want help one bit - it's the attention - if anything, I've been thinking she should change her avatar to Cravin'ForAttention rather than CravingForCarrie! That's all I can see.


This still going on?

Here's the more appropriate crave scenario and my recommendation all in one.

[Pus$y Galore]

This still going on?

Here's the more appropriate crave scenario and my recommendation all in one.


:lol: where did you find that!!

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Hi-five, Sarah!!!!! :clap: Tell this girl here I'm not just an evil bully waiting to get her. Like I said, I could be everyone's best friend, BUT if anyone's going to insist on telling me lies, then.. FORGET IT. :snob:

Furthermore, mispelling "bulimia" and "anorexia" only further helps to illustrate her igorance in this area, especially since I had corrected her several times ALREADY. :rolleyes:

Yup! Definitely an attention-whore. :nod: I'm being VERY generous in my choice of words, btw. :p

[Warm & Fuzzy]

On a side note, I bumped into my teacher on the streets today. I have another appt to speak with her on Monday about some POSSIBLE free counselling. :)

Nik... did you know I have been trying to recovery since 2004??? :eek: And I have gone virtually NO where. Goes to show you show much fun this is, huh? Do you think it's easy or "something?" :rolleyes:

[G-Force Glockstar]

Can I say this without being yelled at or something?


Ok, I admit this is really annoying, but don't you guys think you're being a little bit too harsh and mean about it now? Sorry, JMO.

I know I'll regret this post later :rolleyes:

[Michael [hXc]]

Can I say this without being yelled at or something?


Ok, I admit this is really annoying, but don't you guys think you're being a little bit too harsh and mean about it now? Sorry, JMO.

I know I'll regret this post later :rolleyes:

no they're not being too harsh. you make so many complaining posts and everyone gives you so much advice but you never follow it and you just do the same thing over again. do you even listen to anything anyone says to you?

[EmoJoe]

Nothing should actually shock you on this board. :)
Thats true... :lol:

[EmoJoe]

Even before that, people were making attempts in her "Eating disorder stuff" (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=133651) thread to drill it into her head that she has to eat. she didn't pay any damn attention there either. countless people used the words "anorexia" and "bulimia" spelled correctly, and even after jenny directly pointed it out to her that she was spelling them wrong, she kept saying "anorexious" and "belimia". :rolleyes:

Her original complaint in the WTF thread truly amazed me. reason being self-explanatory; though the fact that it was whiny as f-ck and showed plenty of signs of being a spoiled brat got me more than her saying it after all she'd just been told. and then this thread... :rolleyes: so far you've got yourself an accumulated total of 696 replies in all three threads. You've gotten meaningful advice and been told hundreds, literally H U N D R E D S of times why you need to eat and not to go in the direction you apparently want to go. At the end of WTF, after jenny and tripperfan had gone insane lengths to try to help you and stop you from ruining your life, you come back, STILL whining and complaining you don't weigh 4 lbs and that your parents are so stupid and mean for making you eat. "This is just the beginning," i quote. yeah, well if you want to begin to destroy your life so much because of what two stupid children say, go ahead. it'll be the END of people going out of their ways for the sake of your life if you're just going to make them waste their time. almost 1000 replies.. congratulations. :rolleyes:

"I'm such a bitch for starting this thread and i'll listen to what you guys say now" - how many times have we heard that anyway? do you just try to agree with us so we'll get us off your back? it was you who got us on your back in the first place. to put it frankly, if you listened to just one post in these threads, you would have shut up about your parents being so 'mean' a long time ago. Let alone you would be WANTING to eat. But apparently we, the doctors, health experts, your grandparents and everyone else who knows that starving isn't ever the answer are all wrong, and YOU'RE the only one who's right.

:rolleyes:
:yeahthat :clap :clap: :woohoo:

Excellent post

[spunkygirl]

Can I say this without being yelled at or something?


Ok, I admit this is really annoying, but don't you guys think you're being a little bit too harsh and mean about it now? Sorry, JMO.

I know I'll regret this post later :rolleyes:

No people are trying to help you sometimes being harsh is the way to do it! Maybe if you'd actually listen to the advice(not only listen, but take the advice) then people might let up



Random board.

Thanks Joe ;)

[EmoJoe]

Thanks Joe ;)
No problem ;)

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Can I say this without being yelled at or something?


Ok, I admit this is really annoying, but don't you guys think you're being a little bit too harsh and mean about it now? Sorry, JMO.

I know I'll regret this post later :rolleyes:Still waiting for your responses..... :p ;) :crazy:

And no, we are NOT being harsh at all. You had it coming. If you don't live up to your end of the bargain, if you continue to be the igorant and stubborn person that you are, if you continue to feed us with LIES, then why SHOULD we be all nice and soft with you?? :rolleyes: And for the record, we WERE soft with you, but obviously THAT didn't work.... so, what other option is there? It's tough love. Grow up, and learn to love it. :p

And like I said, if you can't take THIS, then you'll be miserable with an ED. You don't stand a chance. You'll hear MORE yelling and screaming than you can EVER imagine if you continue doing the things you do (skipping meals, etc). Trust me.

Welcome to the real world. You're not little kid anymore. You're almost an adult, whether you believe it or not. It's time you take some responsibility. And not only THAT, but learn that not everyone is going to go "awww, sweetie pie" on you. :rolleyes:

[G-Force Glockstar]

Still waiting for your responses..... :p ;) :crazy:


You're right, I'm wrong?

[Warm & Fuzzy]

You're right, I'm wrong?OH, gimme a break. :rolleyes: Why do I even talk to you??? I've asked you MANY more questions that you have not answered. Sorry, but four words ain't gonna cut it.

YOU started this thread, so I believe YOU should take the responsibility in answering them to its ENTIRETY!!! Do you know what "entirety" means??

And no more "agreeing" so that "you all can get off my back and leave me alone." It's not happening because we KNOW the truth.

[Jonathan]

And no more "agreeing" so that "you all can get off my back and leave me alone." It's not happening because we KNOW the truth.

You tell it like it is.

[spunkygirl]

Mackenzie attitudes like your about Food just royally tick me off. I mean there are people that would change places with you in a heartbeat if it meant they could have one meal, and here you are, you have food and won't eat it!! ohno:

[Pus$y Galore]

On a side note, I bumped into my teacher on the streets today. I have another appt to speak with her on Monday about some POSSIBLE free counselling. :)

Nik... did you know I have been trying to recovery since 2004??? :eek: And I have gone virtually NO where. Goes to show you show much fun this is, huh? Do you think it's easy or "something?" :rolleyes:


Good stuff - don't give up Quench! You're edging closer to happiness all the time. You're a tough cookie - you CAN do this. Then NIk will REALLY have to answer you!

Takes guts to confront your demons! :thumbsup:

[Courtnee]

Yeah,you think your life's bad. Try getting shoved around and talked down to. :( Then tell me your life is horrible.

[Pus$y Galore]

That's right. I really have alot of admiration for all she does to try to better herself.


So do I - I don't think I've ever met a more talented, intelligent, well spoken young woman. She's proof that anyone can fall into this. If I could finally overcome it all (both anorexia and bulimia) she definitely can. And I'm looking forward to the great things she's going to accomplish in her life. This world needs more people like her. I'm not trying to be cheesy here, I geniunely mean it.

[TheGreatPretender]

Can I say this without being yelled at or something?


Ok, I admit this is really annoying, but don't you guys think you're being a little bit too harsh and mean about it now? Sorry, JMO.

I know I'll regret this post later :rolleyes:


Actually no. If they were being harsh they would ignore you and just say "ah I give up she'll never learn" The fact that Q is questioning you and constantly screaming and trying to smack some sense in you should tell you that she cares.


What I find offensive is that Q and Tripperfan have opened up to you several times about their experiences and told you all the pain they went through and you didn't listen to a word they said.I have even told you about my experiences on being on the track to an Eating Disorder. You just insist on being stubborn and in your own little world while you really have no idea what the hell you are talking about.

[dawsongirl]

Speaking of lying and all that...what is her real name?? I always thought it was Mackensie but others call her Nik. O_o

[G-Force Glockstar]

The fact that Q is questioning you and constantly screaming and trying to smack some sense in you should tell you that she cares.

She doesn't care. She just hates me.....at least it seems that way.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Speaking of lying and all that...what is her real name?? I always thought it was Mackensie but others call her Nik. O_o

Back in '03 my parents didn't want me giving out my real name, so I faked a name. But after I was here for a whlile, I decided to give out my real name .

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Yeah,you think your life's bad. Try getting shoved around and talked down to. :( Then tell me your life is horrible.Tell me about it!! :rolleyes: If you ever need to talk, tho, I'm here, Ash. :wave:

Jon/Cath.. you're both making me blush!!! :blush: Awwww!! :o But I'm not really all that great. There's a LOT wrong with me - trust me on this one, LOL! :lol:

But yeah.. one thing's that's great is that I am WAY past that ignorant/denial phase (unlike SOMEONE. :p). I KNOW I have a problem, and whilst my progress couldn't get ANY SLOOOOWER, I am STILL a step closer to recovery, and not to mention a step ahead of Nik. :snob:

So yeah, Nik, I'll be waiting for you on my end. :p I am willing to lend a helping hand, if you are willing to take it. The first step is yours to take, tho - nobody elses. So yeah, prove to us you mean business, and maybe we will get off your back. Your "sorry's" won't cut it. Your "You're right. I'm wrong" is bullshiit, too. ;)

[dawsongirl]

Back in '03 my parents didn't want me giving out my real name, so I faked a name. But after I was here for a whlile, I decided to give out my real name .

Oooooooohhhhhhhh

[TheGreatPretender]

What gives us our admiration is your constant determination to better yourself.


Yeah I know good for her! :thumbsup: I don't know what it is like to have an actual eating disorder but it takes alot of guts and willpower to change your ways. I seriously wish I had that bravery.

[dawsongirl]

Jon/Cath.. you're both making me blush!!! :blush: Awwww!! :o But I'm not really all that great. There's a LOT wrong with me - trust me on this one, LOL! :lol:



Eh, there's a lot wrong with everyone, deep down. It's just different things. :) No one is perfect...or really even close.

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Back in '03 my parents didn't want me giving out my real name, so I faked a name. But after I was here for a whlile, I decided to give out my real name .Wanna know something, Nik? THIS is what I'm talking about.... You are NOT answering your OWN thread to its entirety. It is REALLY rude to skip over comments you have "no answers" to. It's okay to miss a post once in a while, but to miss half a page's worth is inexcusable.. and in numerous threads, too!! :rolleyes:

Tell me, Nik... are you... lazy?? Do you NOT want to bother responding in detail? Maybe you don't have the answers? Maybe you don't FEEL like trying to make up excuses??? Are you exasperated? Perhaps you don't feel like reading so much material.. so you skim thru everything, instead. :p

If you are SOOOOO determined to do whatever it is you wish to do, then why don't you answer my questions? Why aren't you capable of arguing your case? "This is only the beginning." Yeah... OK_AYYYYYYY. :rolleyes:

You ARE speechless, aren't you? I've hit you RIGHT on the nail, haven't you? I will reiterate (look it up if you don't know what it means)... I am NOT that much older than you. I know. You just can't admit defeat, can you? And NO, admitting defeating is not "I'm wrong. I'm sorry." That doesn't suffice. You have to be true to yourself.

Oh, and thanks again Cathie... and Cathy LOL...Jon, & greatPretender (sorry, dont know your name). :)

[Pus$y Galore]

What gives us our admiration is your constant determination to better yourself.


With me, too, I've seen her origami, her photography, writing, and even followed a thread where she was helping someone else out with their math - and it was like reading Greek to me!!! I guess its been so long since I ever used it in school! :lol: But seriously, she is always trying to rise above, and she certainly hasn't had it easy in life either. She has her demons, but she's moving forward. I know from experience that these years are the worst. I know she's going to get past all this and just be an amazing person - I'm talking a possible Connie Rice - or at least a woman who's going to make a mark!

Q - and no blushing from you - you should be patting yourself on your back, looking in the mirror and seeing a great person! I'm serious beiiiitch!! :lol: ;)

[spunkygirl]

Speaking of lying and all that...what is her real name?? I always thought it was Mackensie but others call her Nik. O_o

From what she told me it's Nikki, but she asked to be called Mackenzie because she was at first afraid to give out her real name

[Pus$y Galore]

Eh, there's a lot wrong with everyone, deep down. It's just different things. :) No one is perfect...or really even close.


Exactly! We'd be soooo boring if we were all perfect or even close!

[TheGreatPretender]

I ate a bunch of crap today and didn't excersize wooo go me.

[G-Force Glockstar]

I ate a bunch of crap today and didn't excersize wooo go me.

Same here :(

Well, I only did very little excersize.

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Same here :(

Well, I only did very little excersize.HERE YOU GO DOING IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!! Skipping posts you don't FEEL like replying to, NOT commiting to YOUR end of the bargain. Trying to make life easier for YOURSELF. :rolleyes: I just want to curse you out, do you know that??? You make me SO mad, and I despise your guts. :mad: I swear, I have NEVER, in the five years I've been here gotten SO miffed at one individual before.

Forget my "lending hand." I'm out. Go ask someone else if you "want" help. :rolleyes: And not just ANYONE else... but a trusted adult in the physical life.

Oh, and it's E-X-E-R-C-I-S-E. Talk about IGNORANT! :rolleyes:

[MsOrange]

i'm having a VERY hard time motivation myself back into my workout... I did really good until exam week, oh well, i'll get back on track one day.. lol

[MsOrange]

HERE YOU GO DOING IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!! Skipping posts you don't FEEL like replying to, NOT commiting to YOUR end of the bargain. Trying to make life easier for YOURSELF. :rolleyes: I just want to curse you out, do you know that??? You make me SO mad, and I despise your guts. :mad: I swear, I have NEVER, in the five years I've been here gotten SO miffed at one individual before.

Forget my "lending hand." I'm out. Go ask someone else if you "want" help. :rolleyes: And not just ANYONE else... but an adult in the physical life.

Oh, and it's E-X-E-R-C-I-S-E. Talk about IGNORANT! :rolleyes:
honey it ain't worth it-you can make a list a mile long of people that have died of this, send her news articles, and preach your head out... do'nt waste your energy. you've got a lot of great stuff here, save it for someone who will give it more than just a glance and a "please be my friend again" post.

[Warm & Fuzzy]

With me, too, I've seen her origami, her photography, writing, and even followed a thread where she was helping someone else out with their math - and it was like reading Greek to me!!! I guess its been so long since I ever used it in school! :lol: But seriously, she is always trying to rise above, and she certainly hasn't had it easy in life either. She has her demons, but she's moving forward. I know from experience that these years are the worst. I know she's going to get past all this and just be an amazing person - I'm talking a possible Connie Rice - or at least a woman who's going to make a mark!

Q - and no blushing from you - you should be patting yourself on your back, looking in the mirror and seeing a great person! I'm serious beiiiitch!! :lol: ;)Stoppit! Stoppit right now!!!!!! *crosses arms*

*blushes some more* :blush: *covers face*

Oh, just stoppit! :p LOL.

But, thanks, Cath.. your words mean the world to me. They really do. And I read EVERY word of it, too. :p

It's people like you, Jonathan, and others who keep me going.

[spunkygirl]

HERE YOU GO DOING IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!! Skipping posts you don't FEEL like replying to, NOT commiting to YOUR end of the bargain. Trying to make life easier for YOURSELF. :rolleyes: I just want to curse you out, do you know that??? You make me SO mad, and I despise your guts. :mad: I swear, I have NEVER, in the five years I've been here gotten SO miffed at one individual before.

Forget my "lending hand." I'm out. Go ask someone else if you "want" help. :rolleyes: And not just ANYONE else... but a trusted adult in the physical life.

Oh, and it's E-X-E-R-C-I-S-E. Talk about IGNORANT! :rolleyes:

It's not worth getting upset over :hug: She obviously doesn't give a rats behind about our opinions after asking for them :mad:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

honey it ain't worth it-you can make a list a mile long of people that have died of this, send her news articles, and preach your head out... do'nt waste your energy. you've got a lot of great stuff here, save it for someone who will give it more than just a glance and a "please be my friend again" post.I'll TRY [to save my energy & hold back]! Oh, believe me, I'll try my utmost best. :p But it's just I feel SO strongly about this subject, and when I see people like Nik who WANT to go down this dangerous road, it just breaks my heart. It gets PERSONAL, you know? especially when I pour my little heart to her, and she refuses to listen to me.

But hey... don't say I never helped yah, Nik. And I would appreciate a "thank you," too. Not ONCE have I heard a "thank you" out of your mouth. :rolleyes: And if you expect apologies for my "bullying" you, you ain't getting it.

Will you LOOK at that?? I just wasted another hour of my damn life on this thread, when I SHOULD be doing hwk. :rolleyes:

[G-Force Glockstar]

Well, if sorry isn't gonna work anymore, what can I do? Find someone to help me, like a consular (sp? I'm like the worst speller ever :rolleyes: )?
Reply to all your questions?

[MsOrange]

Well, if sorry isn't gonna work anymore, what can I do? Find someone to help me, like a consular (sp? I'm like the worst speller ever :rolleyes: )?
Reply to all your questions?
heres your sign....
http://www.danggoodjokes.com/pavement/sign.gif

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Well, if sorry isn't gonna work anymore, what can I do? Find someone to help me, like a consular (sp? I'm like the worst speller ever :rolleyes: )?
Reply to all your questions?*plugs ears* la la la la la la.

*cough* READ THE THREAD!!!!!! *cough*

I can't believe you. *shakes head*

And I suppose you couldn't have read back to find the CORRECT spelling of counselor? Lazy! :rolleyes:

:stupid:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

heres your sign....
http://www.danggoodjokes.com/pavement/sign.gif:lol: :crazy: :lol: :happyface :wave: :talk: :confused: :eek: :mad: ;) :p :cool: I'm asking for this PATHETIC thread to be closed.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

I did SO good with my diet today, but then I had a piece of pie and some ice cream. :explode: It may not seem like a lot, but Ive been doing this more and more frequent, and moving less and less.

[MsOrange]

I did SO good with my diet today, but then I had a piece of pie and some ice cream. :explode: It may not seem like a lot, but Ive been doing this more and more frequent, and moving less and less.
join the club!

hey, we should start a diet club! lol

[G-Force Glockstar]

I did SO good with my diet today, but then I had a piece of pie and some ice cream. :explode: It may not seem like a lot, but Ive been doing this more and more frequent, and moving less and less.

That happens to me too alot :(

But like anyone cares!

[spunkygirl]

That happens to me too alot :(

But like anyone cares!


Don't even try that :mad: If people didn't care they wouldnt be in this thread trying to help you. For all the good it did :rolleyes:

[MsOrange]

That happens to me too alot :(

But like anyone cares!
BITE ME

[MsOrange]

But like anyone cares!
would you please just spit in Quencherita face? it would be a lot easier and quicker than what you are doing here

[Hollow]

Can I say this without being yelled at or something?


Ok, I admit this is really annoying, but don't you guys think you're being a little bit too harsh and mean about it now? Sorry, JMO.

I know I'll regret this post later :rolleyes:

She doesn't care. She just hates me.....at least it seems that way.

Well, if sorry isn't gonna work anymore, what can I do? Find someone to help me, like a consular (sp? I'm like the worst speller ever :rolleyes: )?
Reply to all your questions?

That happens to me too alot :(

But like anyone cares!

I f_cking GIVE UP. You want to keep attempting to play psychological games with jenny instead of letting her help you and whining about not weighing 8 oz and "evil people" making you eat, just go ahead. I know i've done all i can. I thought i emphasized all this enough in my last post, but $1,000 says you didn't bother to read a damn word i said.

We're NOT being hard on you. Do you expect us not to be mad after we've spent SO much time trying to help you, and you STILL want to starve and refuse to believe the facts about dieting? We have our own lives to worry about, and god dang did you waste a lot of our time. Yeah, jenny just hates you so much, that's why she went out of her way so many times to stop you from RUINING YOUR LIFE.

I'm out. That's all i have to say, although i know i've just been talking to a wall. One more "my evil parents are making me eat a cracker" thread, and i'm slamming my head through my monitor.

sometimes I'm hard to give advice to (you know what I mean?)
yeah, i kind of do. :rolleyes:

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

join the club!

hey, we should start a diet club! lol
For real! I need the support right about now lol.

[MsOrange]

For real! I need the support right about now lol.
me too! i need some serious motivation... but sitting on my butt looking at post here while snacking on chocolate marshmellows is so much more fun :p

[Hollow]

For real! I need the support right about now lol.
if i were overweight, i would order michael thurmond's 6-week body makeover. it really would be pretty much impossible to fail, and i'm not just listening to the stupid people on the infomercial. :grrbald:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

**** YOU, NIKKI. **** YOU!!!!!!! Shut the **** up!!! Stop being so ****ing SELFISH!!!!! Do you NOT think I have feelings?? Do you not think this takes a toll on me, and EVERYONE ELSE here, too??? DAMN YOU.... CONGRATS you have just lost yourself a dozen friends. Are you HAPPY, now??? All because you wanted a little attention. ATTENTION WHORE!!!!!

You're VERY immature, do you know that? I'm not surprised if a dozen people were talking shiit behind your back RIGHT NOW. Heck, I'M talking **** about you right now. :mad:

I have NEVER cursed so much in my life.

Oh, and YOU'RE WELCOME. :snob:

[G-Force Glockstar]

I wouldn't be surprised if a dozen people hated me now either and were talking behind my back :rolleyes:

That'd be rude, but it was because I was annoying. AND I AM NOT AN ATTENTION WHORE!

[G-Force Glockstar]

I have NEVER cursed so much in my life.


I curse all the time.

[MsOrange]

I wouldn't be surprised if a dozen people hated me now either and were talking behind my back :rolleyes:

That'd be rude, but it was because I was annoying. AND I AM NOT AN ATTENTION WHORE!
the fact that you continue to reply to these posts after you've been told to 'SHUT THE **** UP' proves you are.

i wouldn't be suprised if MORE than a dozen hated you

[Hollow]

I curse all the time.
..okaaaaaaay? :rolleyes:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

I wouldn't be surprised if a dozen people hated me now either and were talking behind my back :rolleyes:

That'd be rude, but it was because I was annoying. AND I AM NOT AN ATTENTION WHORE!Yeah, you ARE annoying. You are the most annoying 13-year old I've EVER encountered. And don't use my words without quoting me. And rolling your eyes is NOT going to help, because trust me... it's the damn truth.

RUDE????? RUDE???? You've GOT to be kidding. YOU are rude!!!!!! And yes you ARE an attention whore.

[Hollow]

I AM NOT AN ATTENTION WHORE!
Then what the hell do you gain from making these dumb threads? what do you want us to do? YOU are the entire problem.

Do you NOT expect us to be mad? (i'm not asking this rhetorically, either...although you're probably not even reading this. la la la la, just talking to myself)

[MsOrange]

Yeah, you ARE annoying. You are the most annoying 13-year old I've EVER encountered. And don't use my words without quoting me. And rolling your eyes is NOT going to help, because trust me... it's the damn truth.

RUDE????? RUDE???? You've GOT to be kidding. YOU are rude!!!!!! And yes you ARE an attention whore.
breathe in... breath out... breath in.. breath out... we're here for ya!

[Warm & Fuzzy]

You expect us all to pity your lies. Well, guess what?? We ain't buying it!

[MsOrange]

I curse all the time.
Oh that's great! we love you again!!


:rolleyes:

[Hollow]

Oh that's great! we love you again!!


:rolleyes:
:lol: for real.

[Warm & Fuzzy]

breathe in... breath out... breath in.. breath out... we're here for ya!GRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!

*she breathes..... and chokes* :mad:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Oh that's great! we love you again!!


:rolleyes::lol: LOL!! That's the hightlight of the evening!

[G-Force Glockstar]

Good news, guys. This will probably be my last post in this thread, unless of course you want me to answer u.

[MsOrange]

Good news, guys. This will probably be my last post in this thread, unless of course you want me to answer u.
oh yes defintley, cause that's done so much good before!!

[Hollow]

unless of course you want me to answer u.
:lol: oh, that literally made me laugh..

no, that's ok. we just asked all those questions to the wall we're speaking to. :rolleyes:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Good news, guys. This will probably be my last post in this thread, unless of course you want me to answer u.GO AWAY!!!!! You've HAD your chance to answer everyone's questions. You've had WAYYYYYYYY too many chances! Just GO. Get yourself a LiveJournal. It's FREE.

And dont let the door hit you on the way out.

.... can't fend for yourself again, huh? Just RUN away. Runnnnnn.... run run run as fast as you can LA DE DAH! :mad:

If that's your attitude, and you DO develop a full-blown ED, then you're in a LOT of trouble, missy.

Do you know "Ana?" She's anorexia. Ana's gonna get you. Ana's gonna shove you around and kick you like dirt. She's gonna bury your skinny little skull and feast on your head. So okay.... GO!!!!!! :wave: I won't miss you.

[Czas na Zywiec]

GRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!

*she breathes..... and chokes* :mad:

Wooooooah Jenny. Calm down. Don't worry, you're not the only one who's feeling like they're talking to a brick wall. Here, remember this? :jar:

[Warm & Fuzzy]

Wooooooah Jenny. Calm down. Don't worry, you're not the only one who's feeling like they're talking to a brick wall. Here, remember this? :jar:Hehe... I remember it. :)

Makes me feel so much better. :jar:
She's another one. ;)

....grrr.....

:D

[spunkygirl]

I wouldn't be surprised if a dozen people hated me now either and were talking behind my back :rolleyes:

That'd be rude, but it was because I was annoying. AND I AM NOT AN ATTENTION WHORE!

You know I try to be a nice person, and it takes alot to make me mad, but this post just did it. Don't bother coming back to this thread, it's obvious you started it to get attention and sympathy, you never wanted anyone's advice!

Why don't you grow up and quit being an attention whore :mad:

[Michael [hXc]]

she just sent me a PM asking me for ADVICE on how to stop everyone from hating her. why does she actually want advice now but she wouldn't listen to any of the advice given by everyone else? probably just because she only listens to what she wants to and she's a selfish attention whore.

to think, all the time you guys took to helping her was apparently a waste because she didn't even listen to it :mad: :rolleyes:

[Michael [hXc]]

AND I AM NOT AN ATTENTION WHORE!

ok that statement is stupid because:

a) do you even know what attention whore means? because in all honesty, if you did, even you would see that you are one.

and

b) if you really thought you weren't an attention whore you wouldn't say it like "HEY I AM NOT AN ATTENTION WHORE! I AM NOT!!!!!" it just makes it look like you're denying it only to cause more trouble.

whatever, i'm outta here. :wave: