Is there a way I can change how I look?

[G-Force Glockstar]

I don't look very nice, in fact, I'm kinda ugly. And I want to change everything on my face, my hair, and just everything on my body.
A few kids at school call me ugly, and sometimes my sisters call me ugly.

But my parents won't let me go dye my hair, or get an extreme makeover.
I know this sounds silly that I want an extreme makeover, but I need one!
Some people don't like me because of how I look.

Is there a way I could change my face without having surgery or anything?
I really wanna look like my idols, Jasmine Trias and Diana DeGarmo, but I can't because they're so much prettier than me.
And another thing, I have braces. They aren't very pretty.

I really need help. I'm desprate.

[AllIWantIsYourClutch]

Oh jesus. Now, I don't know what you look like, but chances are, you're not ugly. How old are you? Like 12? Don't worry about it. Good lord.

And braces are there to make your teeth look better. DEAL WITH THEM. I have for 4 years...

[Brent88]

You'll live. Your young, WAY too young to change your look. I had braces for 2 1/2 years. It wasn't terrible, sure my teeth looked bad, but it only hurt me when I had to go get them tightened. My teeth look a LOT better now.

[MaydayMalonesGirl]

I never liked the way I looked, but lately I haven't been worried about it as much. If people really feel the need to make fun of people who aren't what they consider good looking, then they obviously have some of their own problems to deal with. Plus, we're still young. I look at pictures of my sister when she was in seventh grade, she looks completely different then she does now. At 12 your looks aren't what you should be focusing on.

[Mrs. Ducky]

I used to think I was ugly. I have dark under eye circles and my lips looked blue at times. But now I wear makeup and cover that stuff up.

[G-Force Glockstar]

I have a cricket (sorry, i can't spell the right word) jaw, and people make fun of me because of that.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Do you think that girl on my avator is pretty? That's Jasmine Trias.
I was wondering, because I wanna look like her, but not totally like her, because I'm 5 years younger than her.

[EmoJoe]

If people dont like you becasue your ugly thats just plain wrong. I used to think I was ugly but now I dont. But now Im upset because im getting braces and I already have glasses. :(

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Rurry007
If people dont like you becasue your ugly thats just plain wrong. I used to think I was ugly but now I dont. But now Im upset because im getting braces and I already have glasses. :(

I have braces and glasses. I've had my glasses for 3 years, and I've had my braces for over 5 months.
Braces hurt alot, but they usually don't look too bad.

[Mrs. Ducky]

Originally posted by Rurry007
If people dont like you becasue your ugly thats just plain wrong. I used to think I was ugly but now I dont. But now Im upset because im getting braces and I already have glasses. :(

What's wrong with that? Alot of the girls in my class have braces and glasses and they think of it as a fashion statment.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
What's wrong with that? Alot of the girls in my class have braces and glasses and they think of it as a fashion statment.

Well, for me, people always judge me by that. They think because I have braces and glasses I'm really mean.
I know, that's a really dumb thing to prejudige over.

[G-Force Glockstar]

I wanna look like her:
Jasmine Trias

[dawsongirl]

I was ugly at that age too, but then I grew up and got better looking. It was just natural.

If you really wanna try something, try a new hairstyle, or wear a little make up. I doubt you need an extreme makeover.

[dawsongirl]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
I have braces and glasses. I've had my glasses for 3 years, and I've had my braces for over 5 months.
Braces hurt alot, but they usually don't look too bad.

Braces only make you look better.


And for those kids that make fun of you...I'm sure they have imperfections of their own. Pick those out and the next time they say something to you, blast them with their own problems. They'll stop if they're embarrassed enough.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by dawsongirl
I was ugly at that age too, but then I grew up and got better looking. It was just natural.

If you really wanna try something, try a new hairstyle, or wear a little make up. I doubt you need an extreme makeover.

This girl named Marisol in my classes, she says I really need an extreme makeover. I'm not sure if she's saying that because it's true, or just to be mean.
I never know because everyone is mean to me that I know.
I wish I had people that liked or loved me.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by dawsongirl
They'll stop if they're embarrassed enough.

I can't. EVERYONE is mean to me...I mean everyone in my school (almost everyone), and my family is mean to me alot.

The only people that are really nice to me are my grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and all of my relatives.

[Czas na Zywiec]

It's called PUBERTY. Deal with it. You're ugly and dumber than a brick in this stage of your life because you're supposed to be. Welcome to the road to adulthood. A very LONG road if I may add.

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
I have braces and glasses. I've had my glasses for 3 years, and I've had my braces for over 5 months.
Braces hurt alot, but they usually don't look too bad.

Ok. Glasses are annoying, though. I want to get contacts my mom said maybe.

[Georgia's on my Mind]

I'm hot and I still have no one that loves me and I get made fun of...although it helps to look better, it only gets you fake friends.

[Mr. Stefani]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
I have braces and glasses. I've had my glasses for 3 years, and I've had my braces for over 5 months.
Braces hurt alot, but they usually don't look too bad. so get contacts. and don't bitch about your braces, it's better than having jacked teeth.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
It's called PUBERTY. Deal with it. You're ugly and dumber than a brick in this stage of your life because you're supposed to be. Welcome to the road to adulthood. A very LONG road if I may add.

I'm suppose to be dumber than a brick?

I know, it's like puberty, but no body else I know has to go through stuff like I do. They might go through the same stuff as I do, but I go through it much, much harder.

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
It's called PUBERTY. Deal with it. You're ugly and dumber than a brick in this stage of your life because you're supposed to be. Welcome to the road to adulthood. A very LONG road if I may add.

Yep i think im in Puberty, im a little ugly now too. Uglier than I was at say 9 or 10.

[Czas na Zywiec]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
I know, it's like puberty, but no body else I know has to go through stuff like I do. They might go through the same stuff as I do, but I go through it much, much harder.

http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?s=&threadid=110014

Read this thread and then tell me about the horrors and attrocities in your life.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Nirvana
so get contacts. and don't bitch about your braces, it's better than having jacked teeth.

I'm going to get contacts when I can.

And I'm not a bitch!

[Mr. Stefani]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795


And I'm not a bitch! and chris' point was just proven

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Nirvana
and chris' point was just proven

What do u mean?

[Georgia's on my Mind]

And that Jasmine girl isn't pretty, she's average.

[Brent88]

This board is really falling apart. Geez... :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[Brent88]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
What do u mean?

Do I really have to explain? You bitch about everything.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Brent88
This board is really falling apart. Geez... :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

If you mean this thread, you're right.
Some of the people are starting to be mean to me.

But I'll stop complaing now.

[Brent88]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
If you mean this thread, you're right.
Some of the people are starting to be mean to me.

But I'll stop complaing now.

No the whole board is... all these kids posting worthless threads lately. :rolleyes:

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Brent88
Do I really have to explain? You bitch about everything.

You mean complain alot?

[Cashodeen]

It's actually quite typical to not be so happy about how you look at your age. It's hard because when you're younger you usually don't get to dye your hair or wear make-up. Most people have braces and those are a pain. And then you look up to famous people who are older, and at 12 you usually want to look older. It's just a tough spot...

Maybe you could sit down with your mom and tell her exactly how you feel... Be calm about it... that usually get's you further with parents. :) If she'd let you maybe get a different hair style with a small dye job and wear some makeup that might make you feel better.

And when you're older and the braces are done fixing your jaw, it won't be crooked anymore and your teeth will be perfect. It'll take a little while, but it will turn out awesome when it's all over.

[Brent88]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
You mean complain alot?

Duh. That's what bitch means.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Brent88
Duh. That's what bitch means.

Fine. I'll make you all happy by not coming here very often.
I may reply to some posts here, but not very much.

[Czas na Zywiec]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
If you mean this thread, you're right.
Some of the people are starting to be mean to me.

But I'll stop complaing now.

He said BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. How did you get the word THREAD out of BOARD?!?

Do you need someone to beat your head in with a metal rod so you can finally get those dozen or so brain cells you have to start moving? Because I'd be more than happy to help.

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
He said BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. How did you get the word THREAD out of BOARD?!?

Do you need someone to beat your head in with a metal rod so you can finally get those dozen or so brain cells you have to start moving? Because I'd be more than happy to help.
Why do so many people here find the NEED to insult people. The people that do find the need to insult people are quite sad, in my opinion.

[Cashodeen]

Nice to see the boards are living up to their potential--25 minutes ago I typed my nice lil pleasant advice, when this topic only had one page. I stepped away from the computer for a bit then hit send. Now I find there has been a couple pages added, full of arguing. Swift. :rolleyes:

[Czas na Zywiec]

Originally posted by Rurry007
Why do so many people here find the NEED to insult people. The people that do find the need to insult people are quite sad, in my opinion.

Well when people complain about every single little thing that they don't like in their life while there are people far worse off than them, it's sad. I bet none of you youngsters even bothered to read that article past the first few words. If you did, then maybe she'd realize she didn't have it as bad as she thinks she does.

[Janice]

Please stop the gangup. FullHouseFan posted a thread asking her fellow members for advice and got insults and sarcasm in return.

Most responded kindly....TradingMooses, MaydayMalonesGirl, Mrs. Ducky, Rurry, and especially Dawsongirl and Cashodeen.

Chit Chat has a few new younger members, and I'm not going to sit by and watch anyone be driven off the boards. If a thread doesn't interest anyone, don't post. It's that simple.

If a longtime member had posted a similiar thread, nobody would have replied the way some have on this thread.

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by Janice
Please stop the gangup. FullHouseFan posted a thread asking her fellow members for advice and got insults and sarcasm in return.

Most responded kindly....TradingMooses, MaydayMalonesGirl, Mrs. Ducky, Rurry, and especially dawsongirl and Cashodeen.

Chit Chat has a few new younger members, and I'm not going to sit by and watch anyone being driven off the boards. If a thread doesn't interest anyone, don't post. It's that simple.

If a longtime member had posted a similiar thread, nobody would have replied the way some have on this thread.

I agree with you, Janice!

[Michael [hXc]]

Mackenzie, don't feel bad about it. Everyone goes through a homely stage, but many of the people turn out very good looking. Once your braces come off, you will have perfect teeth. Anyway, as my mother tells me, if you are a truly good person, your personality will override your looks.

Good looks enhance a person, but what's better, a good ugly person, or a bad pretty person? And anyone who gets pleasure out of teasing can't be any better than who they are teasing.

[Brent88]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
He said BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. How did you get the word THREAD out of BOARD?!?

Do you need someone to beat your head in with a metal rod so you can finally get those dozen or so brain cells you have to start moving? Because I'd be more than happy to help.

Thank you.

I'm not going to sit here and argue over this because it's childish and stupid and a waste of time.

[Hollow]

What has become of this board? The second grade? ohno: we need decent, mature people like holly and jenny to come back, this board has really gone to hell.

[Michael [hXc]]

Can't anyone respond to the QUESTION AT HAND? Who feels they can come onto an advice thread with sarcasm and rudeness? I feel bad for anyone who starts a thread and gets bashed because of it! Geesh people!

P.S. Mackenzie, sorry that these people ruined the thread

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Can't anyone respond to the QUESTION AT HAND? Who feels they can come onto an advice thread with sarcasm and rudeness? I feel bad for anyone who starts a thread and gets bashed because of it! Geesh people!

P.S. Mackenzie, sorry that these people ruined the thread

I agree with you 100%. Just cause we are young doesnt mean that we are stupid.

[Janice]

Evidently, my warning fell on deaf ears, so here's the deal. The next insult gets deleted. I'm not closing the thread because, for the most part, people are kind and will offer advice.

[Michael [hXc]]

Nobody deserves to ask a nice question and get snide remarks as their answers. Some people today just feel that they have to make others miserable, when in all honesty, they're the miserable ones.

[Hollow]

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Nobody deserves to ask a nice question and get snide remarks as their answers. Some people today just feel that they have to make others miserable, when in all honesty, they're the miserable ones.
that's an overgeneralization.

[Brent88]

Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Can't anyone respond to the QUESTION AT HAND? Who feels they can come onto an advice thread with sarcasm and rudeness? I feel bad for anyone who starts a thread and gets bashed because of it! Geesh people!

P.S. Mackenzie, sorry that these people ruined the thread

I did respond earlier nicely saying your too young to worry about that.

[robyrob]

kids can be mean, who cares what you look like, there's always someone worse off than you, and you shouldnt worry about how others think of you


....oh, and i give this thread a 4 for entertainment value.

[Michael [hXc]]

you can see I considered that when using the words "some people".

[Brent88]

Originally posted by robyrob
kids can be mean, who cares what you look like, there's always someone worse off than you, and you shouldnt worry about how others think of you


....oh, and i give this thread a 4 for entertainment value.

Me too. I love reading forum fights. :lol:

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

We all feel ugly at some points in our life. Youre only 12, once puberty settles in youll start filling out and changing. When you get older you get to experiment with makeup and hair, but for now just relax and enjoy being young.

[Hollow]

Originally posted by Brent88
Me too. I love reading forum fights. :lol:
Hell yes. :rock:

Anyone who loves message board fights should check out the thats so raven board. it's full of 8 year olds bickering and calling eachother retards all the time. :lol:

[*Pleasant Tomorrow*]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
This girl named Marisol in my classes, she says I really need an extreme makeover. I'm not sure if she's saying that because it's true, or just to be mean.
I never know because everyone is mean to me that I know.
I wish I had people that liked or loved me. See, the good thing is...the people who think they're ugly turn out to be hot, and the mean people who tease them get fat, go bald, or get a crummy job. I can't wait until my ten year highschool reunion to see how ugly people get...like the girls who tan...haha their skin will be crap...etc. They look good now, but they won't later.

^cough...or maybe that's just wishful thinking

But the point is, you're just a kid. I'm not happy with my looks either, but, like others said...we still have time to grow into them. You shouldn't worry about what other people say. They just need a stick shoved up their ass is all.

[Michael [hXc]]

Very well put Ashlee! Couldn't have said it better myself!;)

[vienna waits]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
Well when people complain about every single little thing that they don't like in their life while there are people far worse off than them, it's sad. I bet none of you youngsters even bothered to read that article past the first few words. If you did, then maybe she'd realize she didn't have it as bad as she thinks she does.

What's the point in laying on a guilt trip with an article? You've complained before too just like everyone else here.

[Czas na Zywiec]

Originally posted by Idol Fanatic
What's the point in laying on a guilt trip with an article? You've complained before too just like everyone else here.

Most teenagers these days are spoiled in the fact that they don't know how good they really do have it, even though it seems like the world is falling apart for them. Everyone's complained about it when they have their off days, but no one drags it on constantly like it's the end of the world. You try working to feed your brothers and sisters while your parents have to leave just to make the bare amount of money to keep everyone alive. My parents went through almost the same thing in the 60's and 70's under communism. My grandparets didn't leave home, but everyone had to pitch in and make enough money just so the family could get by. There's a lot of pain and suffering that people go through everyday that most Americans don't know about. You can think it's a guilt trip all you want....doesn't make it any less true.

[dawsongirl]

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
I'm hot and I still have no one that loves me and I get made fun of

Same...though I wouldn't call myself hot.

[Janice]

I never cared for the reasoning of "Don't complain because others are worse off or less fortunate than you".

For every person who has lost a loved one in a car accident or a house fire, there's someone else who has lost their entire family the same way.

Don't complain about your painful arthritis because others have AIDS or cancer....your team loses the 7th game of the World Series, but others can't hear or see a baseball game. I hate that logic.

Everyone's problems are unique to them, and because others have bigger problems doesn't diminish their own troubles.

We can all walk through cancer or burn wards of hospitals and see others worse off, yet that doesn't take away our right to feel bad about our own problems. It doesn't trivialize anything. Everyone is living with their own situations.

[AllIWantIsYourClutch]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
Most teenagers these days are spoiled in the fact that they don't know how good they really do have it, even though it seems like the world is falling apart for them. Everyone's complained about it when they have their off days, but no one drags it on constantly like it's the end of the world. You try working to feed your brothers and sisters while your parents have to leave just to make the bare amount of money to keep everyone alive. My parents went through almost the same thing in the 60's and 70's under communism. My grandparets didn't leave home, but everyone had to pitch in and make enough money just so the family could get by. There's a lot of pain and suffering that people go through everyday that most Americans don't know about. You can think it's a guilt trip all you want....doesn't make it any less true. Just because people may not shout it from the rooftops that they're in poverty or in some type of "pain and suffering" that you mentioned, doesn't mean that they aren't. The thing is, you don't know anyone on here and you don't know what their lives are like. So you can't go and judge people for complaining about one little thing and automatically assume that that's their biggest problem.

[Czas na Zywiec]

Originally posted by Janice
I never cared for the reasoning of "Don't complain because others are worse off or less fortunate than you".

For every person who has lost a loved one in a car accident or a house fire, there's someone else who has lost their entire family the same way.

Don't complain about your painful arthritis because others have AIDS or cancer....your team loses the 7th game of the World Series, but others can't hear or see a baseball game. I hate that logic.

Everyone's problems are unique to them, and because others have bigger problems doesn't diminish their own troubles.

We can all walk through cancer or burn wards of hospitals and see others worse off, yet that doesn't take away our right to feel bad about our own problems. It doesn't trivialize anything. Everyone is living with their own situations.

Well since that was directed towards me, I'll go ahead and take the hint to shut the **** up.

[*Pleasant Tomorrow*]

Originally posted by Janice
I never cared for the reasoning of "Don't complain because others are worse off or less fortunate than you".

For every person who has lost a loved one in a car accident or a house fire, there's someone else who has lost their entire family the same way.

Don't complain about your painful arthritis because others have AIDS or cancer....your team loses the 7th game of the World Series, but others can't hear or see a baseball game. I hate that logic.

Everyone's problems are unique to them, and because others have bigger problems doesn't diminish their own troubles.

We can all walk through cancer or burn wards of hospitals and see others worse off, yet that doesn't take away our right to feel bad about our own problems. It doesn't trivialize anything. Everyone is living with their own situations. Thanks you, that's exactly true. I always think that, just didn't know how to put it into words. Maybe certain things just bother others more, we're all different.

[Hollow]

Originally posted by Janice
I never cared for the reasoning of "Don't complain because others are worse off or less fortunate than you".

For every person who has lost a loved one in a car accident or a house fire, there's someone else who has lost their entire family the same way.

Don't complain about your painful arthritis because others have AIDS or cancer....your team loses the 7th game of the World Series, but others can't hear or see a baseball game. I hate that logic.

Everyone's problems are unique to them, and because others have bigger problems doesn't diminish their own troubles.

We can all walk through cancer or burn wards of hospitals and see others worse off, yet that doesn't take away our right to feel bad about our own problems. It doesn't trivialize anything. Everyone is living with their own situations.
exactly. the fact that something could be worse doesnt make it better.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

Originally posted by Janice
I never cared for the reasoning of "Don't complain because others are worse off or less fortunate than you".

For every person who has lost a loved one in a car accident or a house fire, there's someone else who has lost their entire family the same way.

Don't complain about your painful arthritis because others have AIDS or cancer....your team loses the 7th game of the World Series, but others can't hear or see a baseball game. I hate that logic.

Everyone's problems are unique to them, and because others have bigger problems doesn't diminish their own troubles.

We can all walk through cancer or burn wards of hospitals and see others worse off, yet that doesn't take away our right to feel bad about our own problems. It doesn't trivialize anything. Everyone is living with their own situations.
:nod: Thank you. I consider myself extremely lucky when it comes to life. Yah, I have my moments, but my biggest problems seem to be not getting the best seats at a concert or whatever. So, when something like that happens I get all pissy about it. I get over it after and am thankful Im even going, but to me thats one of my problems in life lol. Id much rather have problems like those and piss and moan about them, then to have real unbearable problems.

[Cashodeen]

Originally posted by Janice
I never cared for the reasoning of "Don't complain because others are worse off or less fortunate than you".

For every person who has lost a loved one in a car accident or a house fire, there's someone else who has lost their entire family the same way.

Don't complain about your painful arthritis because others have AIDS or cancer....your team loses the 7th game of the World Series, but others can't hear or see a baseball game. I hate that logic.

Everyone's problems are unique to them, and because others have bigger problems doesn't diminish their own troubles.

We can all walk through cancer or burn wards of hospitals and see others worse off, yet that doesn't take away our right to feel bad about our own problems. It doesn't trivialize anything. Everyone is living with their own situations.

Well said, Janice.

[Penny Lane]

In high school I was overweight and I felt really ugly sometimes! A lot of people go through this. But believe me I got better looking the older that I got! I blossomed in my 40's!(My best years!) Really!:lol: I know that seems eons away but it will come faster than you think!:eek: Things will get better! :nod:

[Penny Lane]

Originally posted by Janice
I never cared for the reasoning of "Don't complain because others are worse off or less fortunate than you".

For every person who has lost a loved one in a car accident or a house fire, there's someone else who has lost their entire family the same way.

Don't complain about your painful arthritis because others have AIDS or cancer....your team loses the 7th game of the World Series, but others can't hear or see a baseball game. I hate that logic.

Everyone's problems are unique to them, and because others have bigger problems doesn't diminish their own troubles.

We can all walk through cancer or burn wards of hospitals and see others worse off, yet that doesn't take away our right to feel bad about our own problems. It doesn't trivialize anything. Everyone is living with their own situations.

Janice, you are absolutely right! Never say to anbody"It could be worse". That doesn't wash with anyone really suffering with something.(either mentally or physically) That's about the WORSE thing that you can say! Please don't trivialize anyones problems. And that's exactly what that comment does!

[InspectorExstead]

Enjoy having braces...because having a retainer is annoying.

[*Pleasant Tomorrow*]

Originally posted by InspectorExstead
Enjoy having braces...because having a retainer is annoying. Yup, cleaning 'em...smellyness...putting it in and taking it out all the time. I've had mine for almost a year now. It needs to die.

[PZelda]

Mac, think about this.

Just about everybody here that has replied so far to your thread have all been 12 years old at one time, including me (I'll be 19 in two and a half months). I look NOTHING like when I was 12, so you have nothing to worry about. You're starting to look like an adult, and you go through major facial changes at about 15/16. Your looks gets to be more defined and adult-like by 17.

When you're growing up, you need to let yourself just grow up. Please ignore what the other people say. TRY YOUR HARDEST. If you simply cannot ignore them, say something to them like, "My, my. You LOOK like a child, too! Grow up!". Just think of something. You DON'T need an extreme makeover @ 12, because your body and face is still going through major changes, known as puberty.

Like the others said, braces are there to make your teeth LOOK BETTER. Believe them. (I never had braces, but I knew 100's of other people who did, and they have amazing smiles now) My sister had to wear braces for four YEARS, from the time she was 9 until she was almost 14. If you looked at her now, you would NEVER know she had braces. She has the most amazing smile ever. And as for the glasses - I've been wearing them since 1989 and will have to wear them for the rest of my life. I learned 15 years ago to deal with it and that you CAN get stylish frames. Glasses are very flattering on everybody. I LOVE my current glasses.

Please don't do this to yourself. Think about it. You still have five more years to go (you turn 13 this year, right?) before you turn 18. That's a LOT of time for your body to mature and for you to finally look older. You ARE pretty in your own way. The other kids who make fun of you don't know ****, because THEY have insecurity problems themselves and pick on other kids to make THEMSELVES feel better about themselves. That shouldn't be happening.

(I skipped pages 2-5 in this thread because I'm on dialup and can't be bothered to look at every single post right now, so if that was already covered, sorry)

[PZelda]

Originally posted by Janice
I never cared for the reasoning of "Don't complain because others are worse off or less fortunate than you".

For every person who has lost a loved one in a car accident or a house fire, there's someone else who has lost their entire family the same way.

Don't complain about your painful arthritis because others have AIDS or cancer....your team loses the 7th game of the World Series, but others can't hear or see a baseball game. I hate that logic.

Everyone's problems are unique to them, and because others have bigger problems doesn't diminish their own troubles.

We can all walk through cancer or burn wards of hospitals and see others worse off, yet that doesn't take away our right to feel bad about our own problems. It doesn't trivialize anything. Everyone is living with their own situations.

Exactly. I'll never be able to hear, but screw it, I'm fine with that. Well-said :)

[dandelion wine]

It's true: The way you look now, at 12? is not the way you'll look in the next few years. You're going through a lot of changes, which is something we've all been through (or are going through). It's not easy, it can be downright painful (emotionally, physically, etc.) - but you'll make it. Hang in there, ok?

Please don't let these people, who have nothing better to do than make fun of you, get the better of you. They're not worth it, not in the least.

[Seth]

It's generally the ones who get teased about their appearance who wind up coming out on top later on.

In retrospect, people's appearances are a lot like flowers. You have some that bloom early, and fade later, and some who aren't as easy to behold early in life, who blossom later in life.

And if I make one more flora reference, I'm gonna snap...

You get the point, though, right....

[PZelda]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
He said BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. BOARD. How did you get the word THREAD out of BOARD?!?

Do you need someone to beat your head in with a metal rod so you can finally get those dozen or so brain cells you have to start moving? Because I'd be more than happy to help.

Wow, take a breather. You were 12 once, you know.

[PZelda]

Originally posted by Janice
Please stop the gangup. FullHouseFan posted a thread asking her fellow members for advice and got insults and sarcasm in return.

Most responded kindly....TradingMooses, MaydayMalonesGirl, Mrs. Ducky, Rurry, and especially Dawsongirl and Cashodeen.

Chit Chat has a few new younger members, and I'm not going to sit by and watch anyone be driven off the boards. If a thread doesn't interest anyone, don't post. It's that simple.

If a longtime member had posted a similiar thread, nobody would have replied the way some have on this thread.

:thanks:


I should've skipped pages 2-4 instead. Oh geez :rolleyes:

[PZelda]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
Most teenagers these days are spoiled in the fact that they don't know how good they really do have it, even though it seems like the world is falling apart for them. Everyone's complained about it when they have their off days, but no one drags it on constantly like it's the end of the world. You try working to feed your brothers and sisters while your parents have to leave just to make the bare amount of money to keep everyone alive. My parents went through almost the same thing in the 60's and 70's under communism. My grandparets didn't leave home, but everyone had to pitch in and make enough money just so the family could get by. There's a lot of pain and suffering that people go through everyday that most Americans don't know about. You can think it's a guilt trip all you want....doesn't make it any less true.

Have a bad day?

[dawsongirl]

Originally posted by Miss Vicki
I look NOTHING like when I was 12, so you have nothing to worry about. You're starting to look like an adult, and you go through major facial changes at about 15/16. Your looks gets to be more defined and adult-like by 17.



So true. Man, at 12, I had this ugly ass perm (permed BANGS!!), glasses, braces, zits (tons of zits :mad: ), and in my 7th grade picture, I look like I'm an anorexic albino. ohno:

But just 2 years later, in 9th, I'd lost the glasses and braces, lost the bangs, and my skin tone looked normal. I started dressing more girly (more figure accentuating in other words). Simple things like that made me look human. But, point is, most of us look like terds sometime in our teens. So just give it a couple years.

[Michael [hXc]]

My friend's father looked exactly like him at that age, but now, he is a homely man. Looks do change, but some people look exactly the same, but their faces age.

[G-Force Glockstar]

For those who gave me advice and helped, thank you.

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
For those who gave me advice and helped, thank you.

Your welcome!:) :wave:

[Michael [hXc]]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
For those who gave me advice and helped, thank you.

no prob! I'll always help my friends.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Rurry007
Your welcome!:) :wave:

Thanks Rurry007, and Beaverfan5! :) :wave:

[Czas na Zywiec]

Alright, this has been bugging me for a while.

FUllHouseFan, I'm sorry for being such a jackass to you in this thread. I didn't realize how outlandish I really was at you, so I'm apologizing for all those comments I made.

As for the moderator and everyone else, I'm sorry for laying such a 'guilt' trip on everyone. I always keep forgetting that everyone is different and has their own situations, as is mine. My parents always taught me that at the end of any day, when you feel like the world is going to fall apart for you and everything seems to go wrong, always remember that you have what you have for a reason, and that you should be grateful for that, because some people might not be as fortunate. I wasn't raised like a normal american kid, so maybe we don't see eye to eye on everything, but I thought I'd explain myself.

[Janice]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
Alright, this has been bugging me for a while.

FUllHouseFan, I'm sorry for being such a jackass to you in this thread. I didn't realize how outlandish I really was at you, so I'm apologizing for all those comments I made.

As for the moderator and everyone else, I'm sorry for laying such a 'guilt' trip on everyone. I always keep forgetting that everyone is different and has their own situations, as is mine. My parents always taught me that at the end of any day, when you feel like the world is going to fall apart for you and everything seems to go wrong, always remember that you have what you have for a reason, and that you should be grateful for that, because some people might not be as fortunate. I wasn't raised like a normal american kid, so maybe we don't see eye to eye on everything, but I thought I'd explain myself.
That's really nice of you. It's true that our upbringing shapes our philosophy on life, and I think your parents have the right idea in many respects.

I also believe that we should count our blessings and realize that there are always people who are less fortunate than ourselves. I just don't like to hear it when things are going wrong in my life.

"I don't care that people are starving in Third World countries dammit, my f'n nail just broke and I've got a flat tire!" Kidding, kiddding, bad joke.

You're a-okay with me Chris. :wave:

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
Alright, this has been bugging me for a while.

FUllHouseFan, I'm sorry for being such a jackass to you in this thread. I didn't realize how outlandish I really was at you, so I'm apologizing for all those comments I made.

As for the moderator and everyone else, I'm sorry for laying such a 'guilt' trip on everyone. I always keep forgetting that everyone is different and has their own situations, as is mine. My parents always taught me that at the end of any day, when you feel like the world is going to fall apart for you and everything seems to go wrong, always remember that you have what you have for a reason, and that you should be grateful for that, because some people might not be as fortunate. I wasn't raised like a normal american kid, so maybe we don't see eye to eye on everything, but I thought I'd explain myself.

Thank you for apoligizing. I forgive you, and I guess I do complain alot.

But Narvira was the one that started the fight by saying I b*ch about everything. So she's the one that hurt my feelings the most. Brent really hurt my feelings too.
But again, thanks for apoligizing.

[ilovethe80s]

Hi, FullHouseFan8795 I talked to you in the Full House board. I think you shouldn't worry about what other people think about you or say about you as long as your happy with yourself that's all that matters.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by ilovethe80s
Hi, FullHouseFan8795 I talked to you in the Full House board. I think you shouldn't worry about what other people think about you or say about you as long as your happy with yourself that's all that matters.

The only thing I'm not happy with myself is that some people are mean to me and I don't look all that pretty.
I like my hair, but I kinda want to dye it.
My left eye is blind, so it just floats in my eyeball.
My jaw is croocket, and some people make fun of it.

But I'm not going to complain. I guess Czar na Zywiec was right in some ways. You should just be grateful for what you have, but sometimes it's hard to remember that. Because I'm just thinking about how I feel then.

[Mr. Stefani]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795

But Narvira was the one that started the fight by saying I b*ch about everything. So she's the one that hurt my feelings the most. . It's not my fault you take things the wrong way. I didn't say you "bitch about everything", go back and read. All I said was don't bitch aka complain about something that you have thats there to help your appearance in the long run. Damn.

[PZelda]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
For those who gave me advice and helped, thank you.

Anytime. :)

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
Alright, this has been bugging me for a while.

FUllHouseFan, I'm sorry for being such a jackass to you in this thread. I didn't realize how outlandish I really was at you, so I'm apologizing for all those comments I made.

As for the moderator and everyone else, I'm sorry for laying such a 'guilt' trip on everyone. I always keep forgetting that everyone is different and has their own situations, as is mine. My parents always taught me that at the end of any day, when you feel like the world is going to fall apart for you and everything seems to go wrong, always remember that you have what you have for a reason, and that you should be grateful for that, because some people might not be as fortunate. I wasn't raised like a normal american kid, so maybe we don't see eye to eye on everything, but I thought I'd explain myself.

Apology accepted. :)

[Hollow]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
Narvira
i take it you don't listen to good music. :grr:

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by Nirvana
It's not my fault you take things the wrong way. I didn't say you "bitch about everything", go back and read. All I said was don't bitch aka complain about something that you have thats there to help your appearance in the long run. Damn.

Maybe it would be best if you apoligized :)

[Janice]

Originally posted by safety pin
i take it you don't listen to good music. :grr:
Shows how much you know. Narvira is right up there with R.E.N, The Deatles, and Stung. ;)


(kidding fullhousefan)

[Mr. Stefani]

Originally posted by Rurry007
Maybe it would be best if you apoligized :) I have no need to. I didn't do anything.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

Originally posted by Janice
Shows how much you know. Narvira is right up there with R.E.N, The Deatles, and Stung. ;)


(kidding fullhousefan) :lol: :lol: :lol:

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by Nirvana
I have no need to. I didn't do anything.



So get contacts. And dont bi*** about everything

And this ones really mean:
Its not my fault you take things the wrong way. I didnt say you bit** about everything, go back and read. All I said is dont bit** about everything aka complain. Da**

[Janice]

This thread has turned the corner to a nice place, so let's keep it that way. Rurry, please let things go.

[Mr. Stefani]

Originally posted by Rurry007
And this ones really mean: ha ha that was very clever how you changed my "quote" to try and prove an invalid point. but yeah, stop being so belligerent(sat word) you're going to ruin this even more. and i will shut up now as well.

[Hollow]

Originally posted by Rurry007
And this ones really mean:
quote:
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So get contacts. And dont bi*** about everything
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:rotflmao: holy hell, that's pathetic. thank you for enlightening my day with that.

http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?s=&threadid=110061&perpage=15&pagenumber=2

[LucyFan]

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
I'm hot and I still have no one that loves me and I get made fun of...although it helps to look better, it only gets you fake friends.

Really??? I've always thought the good-looking (hot) people had the perfect life. Because whenever I'm around hot people, it seems as though they have no problems whatsoever.

[Cashodeen]

Originally posted by LucyFan
Really??? I've always thought the good-looking (hot) people had the perfect life. Because whenever I'm around hot people, it seems as though they have no problems whatsoever.

Oh LucyFan, get real. Haha.

[Hollow]

Originally posted by LucyFan
Really??? I've always thought the good-looking (hot) people had the perfect life. Because whenever I'm around hot people, it seems as though they have no problems whatsoever.
being hot does not automatically solve all your problems. i'm considered attractive and i have the ****tiest life.

[LucyFan]

Originally posted by Janice
Everyone is living with their own situations.
I agree with Janice!

Too be quite frank, I am very sick of everyone telling me how good my life is (compared to those who are less fortunate than I am). I don't understand that. They think my life is "good" according to their terms, but yet they're not the one living my life, I am.

If this offends anyone, I'm sorry. But I've been hearing that same statement over and over and over.

[LucyFan]

Originally posted by safety pin
exactly. the fact that something could be worse doesnt make it better.

I agree.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Why are people mad at Rurry007? He didn't try to do anything mean.

[Janice]

Nobody is mad at anybody. Please let things go.

[Hollow]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
Why are people mad at Rurry007? He didn't try to do anything mean.
she quoted nirvana and edited what he said to prove a point.

[ilovethe80s]

Can everybody please be nice to FullHouseFan8795 and Rurry007 because they are nice and they didn't do anything wrong they are my friends on the Full House board. Ok so everybody please stop fighting with each other it's ridiculous.

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by dawsongirl
Same...though I wouldn't call myself hot.

Neither would I. I used to think i was ugly, not anymore. I think im average, not ugly, not good-looking.

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by Jen1989
Are your teachers nice? I'm just wondering. For some people teachers might be all they have to turn to, and hopefully in those cases the teachers will be what others can't/won't. Whether it's one teacher or a handful that may make all the difference. If you do not have teachers that are nice, or you can relate to, then at least you have some of your family that is nice to you. I'm sure it seems like everyone is mean to you, but you never know, there could be a potential friend out there, it's just a matter of time.

My teachers are. Except for my Health teacher :lol:

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by Janice
This thread has turned the corner to a nice place, so let's keep it that way. Rurry, please let things go.
ok

[spunkygirl]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
Do you think that girl on my avator is pretty? That's Jasmine Trias.
I was wondering, because I wanna look like her, but not totally like her, because I'm 5 years younger than her.

Personally I think are bigger problems to worry about, I know you're young, but you'll grow into your looks, I highly doubt that many kids your age look like supermodels.

Be proud of yourself, chances are your beautiful inside and out ;)

I've seen these makeover shows on tv where people get surgery to look like their idols, like Demi Moore or Pamela Anderson, even Pam thought it was silly that people would want to do that.

I hate it when people make fun of others cause of how they look, no matter who they are, what gives them the right to sit in judgment of you? :mad:

I say if they don't like it, too darn bad!

[Kristina]

so you're ugly, deal with it. and 12 is way too young to even think of changing your looks, please hit puberty first then start talking.

[EmoJoe]

Originally posted by Kristina
so you're ugly, deal with it. and 12 is way too young to even think of changing your looks, please hit puberty first then start talking.

I thought puberty was 11-14.

[Brad]

Originally posted by Rurry007
I though puberty was 11-14.

Puberty begins and ends at different times for different people.

[Kristina]

Originally posted by Rurry007
I though puberty was 11-14.

ok, what i was getting at is she's way too young to be thinking of changing her looks... but whatever. um... yeah. ......

[PZelda]

Originally posted by Rurry007
I thought puberty was 11-14.

That REALLY depends, like AKA said. I started puberty at like 10 and was finished by the time I was 13. You come out of puberty looking like a completely different person. Trust me on this one. Trust me also when I tell you to wait for about 6-7 more years, then you can put down a picture of yourself when you were 12 and compare it to a picture of yourself at 18. You won't even look the same at 18.

[Ewan's My Man]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
The only thing I'm not happy with myself is that some people are mean to me and I don't look all that pretty.
I like my hair, but I kinda want to dye it.
My left eye is blind, so it just floats in my eyeball.
My jaw is croocket, and some people make fun of it.


Ok, a few suggestions

1.) If you LIKE your hair, I don't suggest dying it, if you do you're gonna either haveta maintain it for the rest of your life or you gonna haveta let it grow out and have it look ridiculous like a few girls at my school. Not to mention the fact that it'll damage the quality of your hair as you get older.
2.) Yea, I honestly don't know what to tell ya for that one...maybe it'll just be a cool lil quirk for you when you're older. You could be the next Kate Bosworth...I used to think that different color eyes were so weird but now my opinions changed, I think it would be so cool to have different color eyes. So hell, go off, become famous and lil 10 year olds can go around saying, "I wish my left eye would just float around in my eye". Hey, dare to dream chickey
3.) Next time you go to the orthodontists, complain about your jaw, I'm sure they have some sorta invention that they're gonna ridiculously overprice and advertise to you parents so they're baby can have perfect teeth.

Trust me, you'll grow into your looks, you really will, and if people are gonna be jerks to you about the way you look, would you even want to be friends with them, or look a certain way for them? It's not worth it...trust me. You'll find your way :)

[vienna waits]

You can have jaw surgery to get your jaw aligned in the right place. You won't be able to have it done though until you stop growing. In a couple years I have to get it done.

[david&maddie4ever]

Don't let anybody tell you that what you're going through isn't tough. I mean, it may not be the end of the world, but I know how ya feel.

You probably will grow outta your looks. My 23-year-old cousin is absolutely stunning, but when I see pictures from the teenage years, I can't even believe it's her.

As for the braces and glasses, I have them both, but it's not so bad. Right now, I have contacts and my braces are coming off in the summer. Everything'll change. :nod:

[dawsongirl]

Originally posted by LucyFan
Really??? I've always thought the good-looking (hot) people had the perfect life. Because whenever I'm around hot people, it seems as though they have no problems whatsoever.

They're faking it.

[Cashodeen]

Originally posted by Idol Fanatic
You can have jaw surgery to get your jaw aligned in the right place. You won't be able to have it done though until you stop growing. In a couple years I have to get it done.

Unless someone has a severe jaw problem, usually braces at a young age, along with certain appliances can prevent jaw surgery in the future. Orthodonics not only straightens teeth, but also guides the jaw's growth so they become positioned in the right place. If she needed jaw surgery, her orthodontist would have to tell her she needs it. It's really not something you elect to have.

That was offtopic... I'm just saying, braces for her might be enough.

:wave:

[*MIBabe03*]

Originally posted by Cashodeen
Unless someone has a severe jaw problem, usually braces at a young age, along with certain appliances can prevent jaw surgery in the future. Orthodonics not only straightens teeth, but also guides the jaw's growth so they become positioned in the right place. If she needed jaw surgery, her orthodontist would have to tell her she needs it. It's really not something you elect to have.

That was offtopic... I'm just saying, braces for her might be enough.

:wave:

You're very correct. I had to get braces and after my consult the orthodontist told my mom that I would also have to have jaw surgery. If you need surgery though, don't fret. It's not that bad, and I don't regret doing it. Anyway you only have glasses and braces, that doesn't make you ugly! Glasses you can eventually get rid of when you are older, you can get contacts. And then of course, your braces will go away.

[*Pleasant Tomorrow*]

Lookit: This is Annabel when she was 11.

[*Pleasant Tomorrow*]

This is Annabel now :)

[PZelda]

Originally posted by *A TV People*
This is Annabel now :)

:lol: :clap

Nicely done! :nod:

[Michael [hXc]]

lol!

[Hollow]

Originally posted by *A TV People*
Lookit: This is Annabel when she was 11.

This is Annabel now :)
:rofl:

[Michael [hXc]]

those drawings are great

[Georgia's on my Mind]

Originally posted by LucyFan
Really??? I've always thought the good-looking (hot) people had the perfect life. Because whenever I'm around hot people, it seems as though they have no problems whatsoever.
you have been grotesquely misinformed.