Would U Be Lonely If U Had No Friends & Opposite Sex As Your Mate?

[isiahthomas]

I wouldn't be lonely if i didn't have a woman or friends cause people are somethin else. It's very hard to have a good friend cause people are so phony. The ones u think are your friends will be the main ones that'll stab u in the back. A lot of times i don't even like approaching women cause their attitudes are so nasty especially black women. I'm a good man & i know iam but it's hard to find somebody who's on the same page as me. I keep runnin into these ghetto women who only wanna go clubbin & partying, smoke, drink alcohol. There's more to life than that. Ain't nothin wrong with having a good time but u have some people that only wanna do just that. I don't dance & drink alcohol so i'm not into clubs & bars. I know this topic may sound like a person being a hermit if u had nobody in your life but ain't nothin wrong with being unsociable. Most people don't be talkin about s**t no way. If u look at the type of guys that women are attracted to, that'll tell u what they're about. The same thing goes for guys that are attracted to certain women. U can tell what they're about by the type of women they like & u can also tell what a person is like by the type of people they have as friends. I just couldn't imagine myself not having sex with a woman though cause once u have sex that first time, it feels so good & u be wanting to have it again. Ain't nothin like having a woman's body against yours & kissing her body during sex. Straight men know what i'm talkin about.

[Dutabi84]

LOL, would you please go into more detail of why sex feels good?

But I'd feel lonely if I didn't have any friends. I've had 'em my whole life, and I'm used to being around a lot of family. This past year I've been around far less people I know, and it has sucked to an extent. This is why I'm glad to be going back to Minnesota. All my friends are up there, more of my extended family, and a girl of potential interest.

[isiahthomas]

If you've had sex before, u would know why it feels good LOL. If u a virgin, u really need to find u a girl that u like & she likes u & the both of u have sex. Then you'll see how good it is.

[Janice]

Don't cross over the line here.

[Dutabi84]

Originally posted by isiahthomas
If you've had sex before, u would know why it feels good LOL. If u a virgin, u really need to find u a girl that u like & she likes u & the both of u have sex. Then you'll see how good it is.

You would make a great highschool councelor.

[isiahthomas]

LOL@i would make a great high school counselor. I don't think i would be good for that cause i don't really like talkin to people & socializing unless they like the same things i like. Most people talk about dumb s**t especially blacks my age. I should know cause i deal with them on a daily basis. When u hear a person's conversation, that basically tells u what they're about. Blacks my age for some reason that aren't educated only talk about stupid stuff like did u hear about such & such got shot at the club or such & such got into a fight with somebody. They need to talk about stuff like world issues & what they're gonna do for a career rather than tellin their boys some woman they had sex with or they beat somebody up.

[¤I Love Clay Aiken¤]

What is this? Sunday Night Sex Show with Sue Johansen?

[isiahthomas]

Naw this ain't no sex show. If u read my topic, u would know what this is about. Just because i happened to mention sex, ya'll get things twisted as usual when that's not what the topic is mainly about.

[HootervilleFan]

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
What is this? Sunday Night Sex Show with Sue Johansen?

That lady is whacked. :lol: But I like her!

[Shine]

There are both possitives and negatives of having a girlfriend. If you have a girlfriend and you really care about her and she really cares about you that is something speciall. If you are single you have more time to yourself. I think it is important to have at least a couple of friends though. It's good to get out with a couple of close friends to go have a drink or see a movie or whatever.

[HootervilleFan]

[i]Straight men know what i'm talkin about. [/B]

Gay men and women know great sex, and loving relationships, too. We all know what you're talkin' about. The question is why you need to talk about it. I don't want to know anything more about your sexual life. Be a man, no...be a GENTLEMAN...and spare us the details. :wave:

[Penny Lane]

I have been married for so long(35 years) that I would go crazy not having anyone around!:crazy:

[Brent88]

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
What is this? Sunday Night Sex Show with Sue Johansen?

:rofl:

Seriously, watch what you say here. There are a lot of young people here(younger than me, and I'm almost 16).

[Jrnygrl]

Originally posted by isiahthomas
LOL@i would make a great high school counselor. I don't think i would be good for that cause i don't really like talkin to people & socializing unless they like the same things i like. Most people talk about dumb s**t especially blacks my age. I should know cause i deal with them on a daily basis. When u hear a person's conversation, that basically tells u what they're about. Blacks my age for some reason that aren't educated only talk about stupid stuff like did u hear about such & such got shot at the club or such & such got into a fight with somebody. They need to talk about stuff like world issues & what they're gonna do for a career rather than tellin their boys some woman they had sex with or they beat somebody up.

I was not going to get into this but. First, please, please, please do not put all black women in the same category, remember there are all kids of women that are ghetto, like to smoke, drink and go to clubs too. Not all black women like clubs, drinking or smoking. Second if you are unhappy with your choices, then I suggest that you should find another group of friends who are more on your level, remember "...birds of a feather flock together." Maybe if you went to places where you feel people are more on your level you can find the woman you are looking for. Try going to a lecture at you local university that will interest you, maybe there is someone you work with who knows someone, when you talk to people sometimes they may know someone who is looking for someone like you. Take a class that interests you maybe you can hookup with someone there. Check you local newspaper for volunteering in a group that you would enjoy. There are always bookstores that have authors come in for readings, maybe you could go to one of these.

These are only suggestions, it is up to you to change your friends and social surroundings.

peacesign: :crysoup:

[Kazza]

You are prolly hanging out with the wrong crowd. Not all black women are bad since there is also white trash.
I don't have a significant other and very few friends and I'm very happy like this.

[Kazza]

Originally posted by HootervilleFan
That lady is whacked. :lol: But I like her!

I agree! That's a good show! She's better than Dr Ruth :lol:

[Hollow]

isiahthomas why do you always separate black and white people?

[Lady T]

I would die if I did not have anybody in my life.
I am a very gregarious person, and have a lot of friends and a special man...Of course, there are times when I went to be alone, but usually, I like to be surrounded by the people that I love...

[jamesanthony]

Originally posted by Jrnygrl
I was not going to get into this but. First, please, please, please do not put all black women in the same category, remember there are all kids of women that are ghetto, like to smoke, drink and go to clubs too. Not all black women like clubs, drinking or smoking. Second if you are unhappy with your choices, then I suggest that you should find another group of friends who are more on your level, remember "...birds of a feather flock together." Maybe if you went to places where you feel people are more on your level you can find the woman you are looking for. Try going to a lecture at you local university that will interest you, maybe there is someone you work with who knows someone, when you talk to people sometimes they may know someone who is looking for someone like you. Take a class that interests you maybe you can hookup with someone there. Check you local newspaper for volunteering in a group that you would enjoy. There are always bookstores that have authors come in for readings, maybe you could go to one of these.

These are only suggestions, it is up to you to change your friends and social surroundings.

peacesign: :crysoup:

This is all good advice. I agree with this.:)

[Cashodeen]

Originally posted by Janice
Don't cross over the line here.

Maybe I'm a prude, but it feels like it has already been crossed.

[dawsongirl]

Originally posted by isiahthomas
I don't dance & drink alcohol so i'm not into clubs & bars.

Me either. Which is why I spend a lot of time here, I guess.